"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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13 year difference between me and her

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Hurrican

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I went to a strip club (over 21) with a fake ID and got this strippers number. She looked like she was 20 years old. I am 20.

Later that day I hanged out with her and found out that she is 33 years old and has 2 kids and her husband just left her a few months ago. She is still technically married. She started stripping to pay bills last month

She is the hottest MILF I have ever seen. She gets carded everywhere she goes. You can only tell she is about 28 in direct sunlight.

Anyways I messed up by being a honest dumbass and telling her I am 20 years old. I think she freaked out secretly but said it didn't matter.

I've been hanging out with her for a few weeks now and chilled with her for 5 days. I even slept with her in her bed (no sex) twice. I touched her everywhere except "in her". She hasn't kissed me yet and I asked her why and she said that I was too young or immature. I know she would be all over me if I had ****in lied about my age. But you think I can get any action from her if I keep working my game on her?

She doesn't want a boy toy. She wants a man for herself and kids (i think)

Any advice on:

-Gaming older chicks
-doing her
-any advice? Thx bros
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hurrican said:
She wants a man for herself and kids (i think)
Simple. There's your advice.

If you want in on this, be a man.

Other than that, assume the sale. You've slept with her twice? Assume the sale and fux her. Don't be a little boy, take her and be a man.

You do see that this chick is WAY messed up, don't you? Careful.
 

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How much $$$ (and be honest about this) has you spent on her or because of her?

I'm curious.
 

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I haven't spent **** on her. She makes at least $800 a week. Sometimes a few thousand.

I spent gas on her. I sometimes take her to the club and pick her up to make sure she is safe.


I can never be the man she wants. I am barly 20 and she is 33 with 2 kids. I am not gonna throw away my life and marry her. WTF?

I can be a good friend of hers and possibly **** her soon. These teases are getting to me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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