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10th Year Anniversary - Keys to my Best Seduction

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It was 10 years ago today that I signed up for SoSuave. At the time, I had recently bedded a coworker 9 years my junior, but she was too small down there, and kept saying "Ow" during sex, forcing me to stop. With her being a computer geek, and with my having a big mouth, she ended up figuring out I joined SS and also joined and she replied to my first OP! The key reply was "Keep your b!tch off the computer!" BTW - I tried to make it work with her for 6 months but it finally ended and instantly after the next girl I banged I thought "Wow - it fits in this one!". The moral: If it doesn't fit, she's not a good fit.

Appropriately, a decade later, I am currently enjoying my best seduction since joining, with the youngest and most beautiful woman (age 20.9) I ever dated, 25 years my junior. Always a student in the world of seduction, I made sure to ask her what the keys were. "When did you first fall for me?" I asked during post coital bliss. "It was that time I saw you pick up that (equally hot) girl". There you have it. To bed a 9, let her see you pick up another 9.

It's probably not a coincidence that after 10 years as a SS member, despite my advancing age of 46, I'm a much more effective seducer now. Feminists will hate this, but I am dating women who would have seemed incredibly young even back when I joined. Therefore, I want to thank all of the members who kicked my as-s for much of these 10 years. Hopefully the younger members will achieve a similar increase in their success.

Secrets of success: Dress sharp, work up a sweat at your career, eat healthy, talk to every woman you meet, and be generous.
 

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Happy anniversary! There's always more to learn and this board has been progressive with it's information. That's why I never leave.

There's absolutely nothing like dating women in their early 20s regardless of how your age keeps going up. Women in their 30s hate us.

Speaking of women in their 30s, it's funny how all the girls I was wanting in high school are now considered not worthy of dating me because they're too old and baggage-ridden. It's fun looking them up on Facebook and seeing how ugly they are now.
 

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Happy anniversary! There's always more to learn and this board has been progressive with it's information. That's why I never leave.There's absolutely nothing like dating women in their early 20s regardless of how your age keeps going up. Women in their 30s hate us. Speaking of women in their 30s, it's funny how all the girls I was wanting in high school are now considered not worthy of dating me because they're too old and baggage-ridden. It's fun looking them up on Facebook and seeing how ugly they are now.
I publish risque but tasteful photos of the 20 year old on Facebook and remind the girls born in 1968-1975 (early Cougars who told me I was too old back when I joined SS in 2006) that she was born in 1995 (she was still only 10 years old when I joined SS). Then I don't even read their replies. I want to do a nude pictorial called Cougars Daughters.
 

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What was the situation when you were picking up a girl in front of another one?
 

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What was the situation when you were picking up a girl in front of another one?
Keys to Seduction (TMI Version)

Well, this girl was the hostess at a 5 star hotel when I met her as a brunette on New Year's Day. I was wearing a bow tie and made a good impression. She had just turned 20 and told me her birthday. I told her every man wants a 20 year old woman. I left after about 3 minutes of speaking to her. She later said she asked where I went (never say goodbye).

8 months later I met perhaps the most beautiful blonde stripper I've ever seen on stage and I managed to get her to have a crush (in three visits, speaking to her 30 seconds each time when she was on stage). When I went to see her at the club the day after getting her phone number, another girl sat with us (the only girl hot enough to steal my eye, and I secretly got her number also). A third girl joined us and I learned they "were the three Alpha females there on day shift", and didn't all know each other. They said I was one of the best dressed men they ever met. I entertained the three of them for about 20 minutes, throwing them a few $20's. I never asked them to dance and they didn't show anything.

When one went on stage, I said to the other two, after massaging their feet and having one spoon feed us cheesecake I bought her, "I better get going to beat traffic back to work, but how about a three way French kiss?" and they both did it. After the kiss, my date (to be) said "I haven't been hypnotized in SO long!" as the second girl simultaneously asked "How did you do that??" (twice). I replied "By the time a man can read a woman like a book, he needs bifocals". They said they could have got fired for that. I kissed and hugged each goodbye and got out of there when I was ahead.

But get this - it was two days later, three days after getting her real name and number, that I realized the stripper was also the hostess of the hotel 9 months earlier! I texted her a photo from the spot we met, which I happened to go to (for only the second time ever) by chance that weekend. We couldn't believe it because she looked unrecognizable with false eyelashes and different hair color. At that point she sent me a photo of herself and we had a true romance. Our first date was 8 days later and was one of the best of my life. On our second date (while in the bathtub with me) she said she still would have gone out with me even if that coincidence didn't happen. But if you've dated a stripper you know it's so much better when you meet them outside the club first.

When I asked her, she said the moment she fell for me was just before I pulled off the three way kiss, when she realized the other girl liked me (I assume she must have said good things after I left or the seduction would have been over).

Note, the first 4 times I spoke to her lasted a total of 5 minutes combined (spread over nearly 10 months, the last 3 times over 5 weeks). I was always sharply dressed. I always approached her and she always responded favorably. I always tipped with $5 bills. Then she had a crush before I ever sat with her. She said the first thing she noticed was my eyes, then my bow tie. I never got a table dance or went to VIP.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Congratulations on your progress. I can only hope to reach this level of success on my path.

All the best in years to come brother.
 
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