"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1000th Post! I Got Laid Finally!!

SharinganUser

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As most of you don't know, I decided to leave this site until I either got laid or got a gf.

Last week I met a girl (half korean half chinese) in a club. I had trouble just getting her number because I didn't know mine and she didn't know hers. So I had to spend about an hour figuring out what it is while she was dancing with some local guy. I was getting really mad that I was ****ing up. I finally got the number and exchanged it with her. I had to go out side to cool off and my friend came outside with me because he could see I was getting pretty angry. He just told me to for it. To my suprise she came outside and so did the local guy she was dancing with. He told me she was a lesbian. But I later found out that that is not the case.

I tried to text her to set up a meeting a few days later but nothing panned out until last friday. I would've met her on thursday but my phone ran out of money just as I told her which bar I was going to.

I ended up meeting her on friday night instead. I didn't drink much and we just danced. I could tell I was getting a bit boring because she wanted to scam some free drinks and I wasn't buying **** for anyone. She went to another table and I got mad and said I was leaving. My friend took me outside and gave me an Obama like speach about how you don't go to clubs to dance, you go to meet women.

The girl sent me a message wondering where I had went, so I went back inside and said the first thing that came to mind. "My friend thinks you're a lesbian, but I am not sure, maybe you aren't and maybe you are. I need some proof."


She spend the next 15 minutes wondering why I said that and then decided to prove it to me. I sealed the deal and she proved it again to me last night.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Veridin

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Congratulations! I bet you have a bounce to your steps now. :)

That is a funny way of coming on to a girl - great that you took the step. And what a good story for post number one thousand!
 

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It took you over three years and 999 posts to make this happen? What the hell were you dribbling over in those other 999 posts?
 

SharinganUser

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BigWillyStyle said:
It took you over three years and 999 posts to make this happen? What the hell were you dribbling over in those other 999 posts?


lol, mostly talking out of my ass, and trying to learn as much as I can. I got some action over the years, but I just came out of an 8 month slump.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ENIGMA16

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HAHAHA "I heard you're a lesbian." New favorite pick up line.
 

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SharinganUser said:
Obama like speach

So your friend was reading from a teleprompter?

Or was he saying 'uhhh' and 'errr' and 'ummm' after every third word?

Since when does Obama give speeches about getting laid? If he did, I sure as hell wouldn't listen to that tool.
 
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