"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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1000 posts

Warboss Alex

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Okay lads (and ladettes if there's any stalking the boards) .. I'm on 1000 posts.

I seriously need to lay off this site. It's getting embarrassing, heh.

I said once I got to a thousand I'd stop and just post sporadically, well, that's what I'm gonna do from now.

Feel free to PM me etc, and I'll still be around now and again, but sheesh.. 1000 posts in what, four months? I hope at least that I've managed to help some people.

Good luck with your goals everyone, whatever they may be.

See you all around.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thefonz

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Bye pumpkin, love you XOXO
 

manuva

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Aww don't leave us, big guy! Who else will entertain us by eating until he spews?
 

wavejams007

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1000 posts in four months? You sure did have a lot to say.:D
 

Centaurion

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lol yeah when you have 1000 posts in 4 months, you really really need to unplug.

Hell, i've been here for ages, and I havnt broken 1500 yet.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Create Reality

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Surprisingly the majority of his posts have been in H&F (about 99.5% of them). If you never read the other forums bro, that makes me feel bad that you missed out on alot.
 
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