“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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100 TIPS from the top of my head

DEKKA

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-In my life I've picked up all kinds of tips, tricks, mannerisms, tactics, and ways that make me who I am and make me very successful not only with women, but more importantly in life. I'll share most of the ones I can think of.

1. Don't lose your power. If you lose your power you lose her respect. Remember... YOU START WITH THE POWER.
2. If you ever lose her respect you are history.
3. Women don't want feminine men. Don't be a girlie boy. Err on the side of being too rough and manly, but never be the wuss.
4. Women are more scared of you than you are of them, act like it is so.
5. Every day that goes by you will never see again. You are one step closer to your death. You are deteriorating. Now is your peak and you can never count on tomorrow.
6. You don't love her yet. Women are a drug for our ego. When you are finally at the point where you actually do care about a woman more than yourself, where she builds you as a MAN and can seperate that from the euphoric effects of being close to a woman, then, you may love her.... but you still don't need to let her know with words.
7. There are millions upon millions of women. Rarely is one that different from the rest. This mean two things. One, don't ever think "this one" is different, and two, theres always another woman. Broaden your horizons so you know what a truely "special" woman is.
8. Walk tall and slow and directional. Walk like royalty, like you have a cape on your back. Walk very slow(this does two things, it makes you look composed, "not in a hurry", and self-assured AND it makes others who are walking faster move out of YOUR way).
9. Take excellent care of yourself physically, mentally, financially and emotionally. This means
-Work out.
-Make good money.
-Read, educate yourself and become cultured.
-Develop your own personal style that reflects individuality.
-Don't get depressed. It's a sign of laziness and self-pity.
10. Travel and see the world.
11. Just start simple conversations with women. It's not hard or ever something to be afraid of. Using a good context is good but just make it natural. Just talk to them and make them feel comfortable and happy.
12. MAKE PEOPLE FEEL GOOD AROUND YOU. Most people are addicted to what makes them feel good. If you are that addiction than it’s a good thing.
13. Drop the negativity completely from your life. This means all forms of hating, comparing, talking about people, feeling sorry for yourself, talking about anything in a negative way. Think only positive and happy thoughts and people will not understand how you can be like that in such a messed up world.
14. Learn to be an active listener and teach yourself to actually become interested with what another person is saying. Many people feel alone because they know that on a deep level the person they are communicating with doesn't care what they say. If you are a man who is really and I mean REALLY listening and thinking about what somebody says people will love you for it.
15. A MAN needs a lifes work, goals, dreams, and ambition. FIND OUT WHAT YOU LOVE AND DO IT.
16. Men are more happy when they are working with their hands and doing physical labor in some way. They are more fulfilled.
17. Men take their lumps without complaint.
18. Men don't spew out their emotions all over the place and when they do its disgusting...especially to women.
19. You can take care of yourself without being a metrosexual;) I've talked to many women and very few like pretty boys. You must be able to stand the thought of getting dirty.
20. You are the catch of course. Women’s goal in life is to get married(the ultimate social status for her). It is a prize if she can catch a man for life and she IS pursuing you. If you are a true MAN, you don't have much competition and you will have your pick.
21. ALL WOMEN NEED DRAMA. Don't become boring, lazy, or unoriginal.
22. ALL WOMEN LOVE MYSTERY. Don't become boring, lazy, or unoriginal.
23. The element of mystery can be gained by not being an open book. Acting like you have a secret. Sending conflicting signals of strong interest then never calling.
24. Stay on track for the goals you have set(have you set goals?)
25. Don’t talk about yourself or give away details about your life unless you have to and want to. If you don’t feel like saying something then don’t say it. Tis better to be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.
26. Life’s a joke. If you take it too seriously the jokes on you.
27. Kino is god of all that is seduction.
28. Smile and think happy thoughts.
29. Don’t hide your intentions from a woman. Being overt about your sexuality is a sign that you are self assured and know what you want. In other words, don’t try to “be her friend first” in hopes of later developing it into something else. She must know that you could be a great lover and it has to be shown in your actions.
30. Always trust your instincts. Don’t fool yourself into thinking things are working when they aren’t or that you have a chance when you don’t. Move on, polish your game, and start anew.
31. Wear good cologne. Women love if you smell good.
32. Learn how to be a good lover.
33. Don’t be too sappy. i.e. writing poems, buying her things, saying sugary sweet stuff, and generally being sugary sweet in general. Be untamed and a little rough around the edges while you maintain your class and culture.
34. Don’t hang on her every word. I see lots of guys basking in a woman’s presence as if she’s the focus of all his attention.
35. Attention is your currency. Spend it wisely. Giving a woman too much attention makes her think in some way she actually deserves it. Have her ALWAYS wanting more.
 

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36. Leave at the high point of whatever it is that you are doing. If things are perfect and all is well, it’s time to hit the road. If you keep leaving just when things are getting really good you build lots of anticipation.
37. ANTICIPATION. Learn it. Be it. Use it. Anything you can think of that creates this will help you tremendously.
38. From the Tao of Steve: 1. Be desireless. 2 Be excellent in her presence 3. Be gone.
39. She’s already got a pvssy, what makes you think she needs another one?
40. Don’t leave messages on her answering machine. I don’t think I need to say why.
41. Don’t ever tell her how good she looks if at all possible. Use compliments but let them relate to her personal style etc. NOT how beautiful you think she is. Be genuine.
42. ********: Learn it. Use it. It’s amazing what you can do with this secret language.
43. Learn how to network and build friendships with the new people you meet. Work to turn everyone you meet into a friend. Networking is something that will help you majorly in life not only with women.
44. People want to be friends with and have relationships with loving happy people that don’t have issues. You have to learn compassion. Would you rather have a stressed out drama queen or a happy secure genuinely loving woman?
45. GET A LIFE. Find something to do with all your time. Find things that you would enjoy telling other people about. I volunteered to tutor children when I’m not at work and school for example. Sports, clubs, classes, volunteer work, fixing cars, whatever, just occupy your time!
46. Don’t do drugs. I did for a while. Never again.
47. Talk in a smooth low tone of voice all the time. You are a man you should talk like one.
48. Watch James Bond.
49. You can’t know what you want until you have experience. Get out there and start dating (don’t spend too much though). You shouldn’t even be thinking LTR until you have a firm base from dating multiple women for a long period of time.
50. Women are mirrors. Don’t ever catch yourself wondering what she’s thinking, if she’s mad at you, or if you are being accepted. If you assume all is well then it will be because women look to you for clue on how they should feel.
51. Never admit defeat. Never apologize if you don’t have to. Never give credit to anything you don’t want to become an issue. If you treat a mistake like it was nothing you’re better off than making big apologies over it.
52. Fear is not a beneficial emotion. Fvck fear in the a$$.
53. Laziness is not a good quality. Beat the $hit out of it.
54. Who really gives a two $hits about any particular woman. They are there to help you and build you up as a man. If they aren’t doing that they aren’t helping anything.
55. SAY NO. Say it often.
56. Get pissed off at your hoe once in a while. She needs her medicine or she’s gunna become a chronic drama queen who thinks she could conceivably “run things”. *laughs*
57. Always have the attitude of “I like this but I don’t need it and I can leave any time I want.”
58. You shouldn’t be spending any kind of measurable money on a women until after quite a few dates. There are too many duds to wade through and you’d be better off with a new sterio. If she’s into you AND actually worth giving any of your precious time, she’ll forgive a little bit of “equality”
59. Don’t allow yourself to listen to her problems. You don’t care anyway so don’t do it.
60. Don’t subject yourself to anything in a relationship just to placate and appease a female. You are free to adjust the truth to help you at times but there’s a thin line between being impressive and trying to impress a woman. Never catch yourself being the loser who has to try.
61. Alpha males give advise. Betas seek it. Giving unsolicited advise to other males is a great way I amuse myself sometimes. It really gives them an inferiority complex. The same goes with women. Never ask her about anything as if somehow she could know something you don’t. EVER.
62. Don’t seek help, reassurance, acceptance, favors, handouts, support etc from anybody, especially women. Stand on your own and you are a man of your own making.
63. If it isn’t helping you. Eliminate it. Women, habits, attitudes, anything.
64. Get a decent looking car. Get the one you want and let it reflect your style.
65. Every guy should know the feeling of turning a few women into chumps.
66. Women don’t really understand what you’re talking about when you’re talking to them. I know this is hard to accept. They just know how they FEEL when you’re talking to them. Learn this. Use this. Accept this. *cough*sorry for being such a sexist bastard sometimes*cough*
67. If you aren’t moving forward you’re moving back. Don’t say or do anything unless it’s getting you where you want to be. In other words, don’t spin your tires.
68. Women are very easy to manipulate once you get your head out of you’re a$$. Not that you would of course *cough*
69. Yes please.
70. There are tons of women who are down for threesomes… you just have to look around and refer to #43. above (networking).
71. The only reason to be romantic is so the chick can brag about you to her friends and parents and convince herself that she loves you. There is no “independent value” to being romantic. If you ever push it too far it’ll backfire and come off as pathetic. Give her just enough to brag about you to her friends.
72. Jealously is a powerful tool, but don’t ever let this powerful tool be used on you.
73. Learn how to dance like less of an idiot.
74. Don’t EVER let her drive. You’ll know why once you do. It’s all about the dynamic. You’ll have way more fun driving then if you let her drive. You are physically “putting her in the drivers seat” in every sense of the word. It’s even okay to be a bit juvenile about this one. I am.
75. Can’t make a hoe into a housewife. Which brings me to my next point….
76. Don’t get married. Then, when you do anyway, don’t be such a tool and marry somebody that at least cooks and cleans and handles your manly urges without complaints. You also want somebody that’s gunna raise your worthless offspring into the next generation of pathetic losers.
77. I was going to go to 100 with these tips but, really, I’m getting quite sorry I even began to write this list. This stupid asian bytch named jean that I talked to last night at the tennis courts just called me and asked if I wanted to come over and “study”, but I rejected her with the simple, “I’m too busy… maybe later”. I’ll go take care of her womanly desires on my clock. I didn’t feel like wasting my precious time tonight. I’m happy as a fvckin clam and I just remembered that…
78. Rejecting women is really fun sometimes. Getting laid is great but, hell, a good steak is too. I’m gunna go eat one. Peace playas and good luck becoming me;)
 

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This is a rewrite of alot of other posts just using different words. Anything that wasn't copied isn't too bright "Be optimistic about everything etc..." This is a bad (no pun intended) recap of all the other great posts.
 

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Hey DEKKA,

I know an asian girl named Jean that plays tennis. Where are you from? How crazy would that be if it's the same girl? What is her last name?
 

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DEKKA, why didn't you give the other 22 tips? Did you past out at the computer due to thinking too hard?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Oh I see you left at 78 because you were hungry...well after eating that steak you better provide some grade A tips because I don't like to wait in vain...
 
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