"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

100 per week... MUST attempt #close

Cod3r

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 19, 2006
Messages
862
Reaction score
12
This is partly because I miss approaching being in LTR, but also to prove the theory that the game is a game of #'s....

Anyone out there want to join me in approaching 100 women per week ?? Obviously some people will get more numbers, but everyone should be able to get at least 10 #'s (or 10%) in a week...

I just want to see if you can plow through females without all the game, just go up however you want and have a conversation.. AFC or not, the only thing is you have to attempt a #close at the end...

At the end of the week, we'll see how many numbers we got and how many of them were reaL, this'll get some of you off your arse and of course it'll be fun because you might meet your 'person' or might lead to sex who knows...

Anyway, I'll be starting my approaches this Wednesday (Nov. 15 - Nov 22) if anyone wants to join just post your approaches in this thread... Don't be afraid, its just fun and u'll see that the game really is all about #'s... u might get shot down by an HB6 just to #close an HB8 the next day... come on !


-Cod3r
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

~attrACTION~

Banned
Joined
Oct 1, 2006
Messages
714
Reaction score
7
Location
Heaven
Cod3r said:
This is partly because I miss approaching being in LTR, but also to prove the theory that the game is a game of #'s....

Anyone out there want to join me in approaching 100 women per week ?? Obviously some people will get more numbers, but everyone should be able to get at least 10 #'s (or 10%) in a week...

I just want to see if you can plow through females without all the game, just go up however you want and have a conversation.. AFC or not, the only thing is you have to attempt a #close at the end...

At the end of the week, we'll see how many numbers we got and how many of them were reaL, this'll get some of you off your arse and of course it'll be fun because you might meet your 'person' or might lead to sex who knows...

Anyway, I'll be starting my approaches this Wednesday (Nov. 15 - Nov 22) if anyone wants to join just post your approaches in this thread... Don't be afraid, its just fun and u'll see that the game really is all about #'s... u might get shot down by an HB6 just to #close an HB8 the next day... come on !


-Cod3r
Wow, this is a really ambitious goal. I don't know about 100/week, since I'd probably run out of women in a week or two if I did that many. But I'll give it a shot for 20/week.

I figure I may not make 20, but I can at least try and get off my ass like you said. It definitely helps to be attempting it along side someone else.

Just curious, where will you be doing the bulk of your approaches...school, city, clubs, stores...?
 
Last edited:

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
A hundred is pretty ambitious, try not to rush too much. Good luck! :up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Cod3r

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 19, 2006
Messages
862
Reaction score
12
Just curious, where will you be doing the bulk of your approaches...school, city, clubs, stores...?
Well I live in NyC, so the streets are open 24/7 and I live in student housing from different colleges with multiple lounges and things, also school is pretty prevalant with females, clubs this weekend of course...

I'd say the bulk will be in the street somehow, but I will make a point to head to places like Barnes and Nobles and those type of places... I'm not limited by the amount of women since its a big city...

Hey guys I overlooked that some of you won't be possible to do 100, but do the max you possibly can... Write them down in this thread, I'll be starting tommorow with the first approach, dosen't need game... just approach and even if its bad and awkward, you MUST attempt #close... that's objective


-Cod3r
 

Fang

New Member
Joined
Jul 21, 2006
Messages
4
Reaction score
0
I'm up for that, although if you don't reach a 100/week you might feel failure which could hurt your inner game
 

Cod3r

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 19, 2006
Messages
862
Reaction score
12
Everyone that said they would try... I want posts and updates !

100 is the goal, but we'll take what we can get



-Cod3r
 

Cod3r

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 19, 2006
Messages
862
Reaction score
12
Approach #1

**Girls taking pictures in Times Square (HB6, HB7.23432)**

ME: Hey get in there together, I'll take the picture for you guys
THEM: **excited, japanese tourists**
ME: *STart to walk off with their camera*
THEM: *Chase me down* wat ru doing hey you !?
ME: *laughing* just kiddin, or am i ?

*take picture, get names and attempt #close*

ME: K guys, i'm late for class... hand over the numbers, its typical US custom
THEM: *looked confused*
ME: Nevermind, have a fun trip... lateer

approaches: 1
#'s: 0



-Cod3r
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Cod3r said:
Approach #1

**Girls taking pictures in Times Square (HB6, HB7.23432)**

ME: Hey get in there together, I'll take the picture for you guys
THEM: **excited, japanese tourists**
ME: *STart to walk off with their camera*
THEM: *Chase me down* wat ru doing hey you !?
ME: *laughing* just kiddin, or am i ?

*take picture, get names and attempt #close*

ME: K guys, i'm late for class... hand over the numbers, its typical US custom
THEM: *looked confused*
ME: Nevermind, have a fun trip... lateer

approaches: 1
#'s: 0



-Cod3r
So you're saying that your plan is to rob random people on the street and hold their possessions hostage until they give up their telephone number????!!!!

FVCKIN' A!!!! :up:
 

Cod3r

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 19, 2006
Messages
862
Reaction score
12
Approach #2

*HB5aged30+ security guard downstairs on way out of interview*
(She'd given me hard time about ID going in)

ME: U want to frisk me or something ? Seriously
HER: *Rolls eyes*
ME: You have pretty eyes btw, wats your name ?
HER: huh ?
ME: I said wats your name ?
HER: why ?
ME: Well before i ask for a number, its a pretext for me to ask a name
HER: what ru talking about ?
ME: *Takes out phone* Wats your # ?
HER: Please *smiling*
ME: Yeah it wouldn't work anyway... bye you

approaches: 2
numbers: 0



-Cod3r
 

Cod3r

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 19, 2006
Messages
862
Reaction score
12
So you're saying that your plan is to rob random people on the street and hold their possessions hostage until they give up their telephone number????!!!!

FVCKIN' A!!!!
*rubs brow* maybe... maybe...

Nah I used that one before, but with American girls it went over better because they knew I was joking, the tourists looked kinda scared and surprised lol ehh I'll use this again before its done... maybe better reactions..


-Cod3r
 

GirlCrazy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2003
Messages
658
Reaction score
1
Age
59
Location
Spokane, WA
Francisco d'Anconia said:
So you're saying that your plan is to rob random people on the street and hold their possessions hostage until they give up their telephone number????!!!!

FVCKIN' A!!!! :up:
I once had a blind date take my phone hostage. Put it in her purse and said I'd only get it back if I followed her to another bar. So I waited until she went to the restroom, liberated my phone and went to some random bar alone - had a great time.
 

Cod3r

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 19, 2006
Messages
862
Reaction score
12
Approach #3

*I fvcked up on this one, girl was HB9Persian on elevator, I gawked at her and looked away when she looked at me, I was fvcked from the beginning*

ME: Hey do you...
HER: *Rolls Eyes and chuckles w/ her friend*
ME: *Puts head down & walks away*

Approach #4

*HB8Azn listening to Ipod*

ME: Wat ya listening to ?
HER: U2
ME: Youtube ?? Ur listening to youtube ? *corny i kno*
HER: No, U2.. the band
ME: Ohh nice, u live here also ? *walking into my building*
HER: Yeah *starts to walk off*
ME: Hey, how about I call you sometime ?
HER: *shakes head and gets on elevator*

approach: 4
#'s: 0


--
Ok, approaches 3 and 4 definitely weren't fun. I actually had to force myself to approach the 4th one because my confidence was down to about -3 after she brushed me off, I AFC'd on the 4th and now kinda got that feeling in my stomach like "ehhh i dunn wanna do this anymore" but I'm going to keep going with it..... I think I need more confidence when approaching, that 9 def. took me down a few notches, don't even know why...


-Cod3r
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

6-heads lewis

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2006
Messages
635
Reaction score
7
Cod3r you got some balls, honestly, lotsa respect man. The security guard one was jokes. Had 3 and 4 happened to me id undoubtedly go back to my cave, hell most ppl (myself included) dont have the willpower to attempt it, let alone stomach bad results.

Keep it up, the results will come (probably, I cant tell the future). Ill try and join you guys when I go to Univ in Jan, but Im years behind on social skills, 1 approach/week at this point would be an accomplishment.
 

greenlake

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2006
Messages
269
Reaction score
3
this sound fun, you guys really inspire me to register, cause i''m joining. btw, the girls in these approaches are harsh.
Cod3r: your approaches are hilarious. u have a lot of gutz buddy. don't give up.
 

MIKE.T

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 13, 2006
Messages
37
Reaction score
0
How do you know she was persian if you didn't talk to her? (Are you persian too, so you recognize your own kind?)

Oh, and also, that is some very original language you are using. If you are actually doing these the way you write them, mucho respect.

Edit
One more thing, you seem very at ease with the less attractive ones, but the hb9 had you tongu-tied. That is what I experience, too. Very little problem being flirtatious with girls I'm not really or only mildly attracted to, but the one hot ones completely disable me. Argggh.
 

skip2mylou781

Banned
Joined
Jan 14, 2006
Messages
1,796
Reaction score
11
Age
42
these random kind of approaches work ALOT better when u are 2 things

1)good looking
2)sincere

COD3R, i seen ur pic and u look decent, so i think u should just be more straightforward with these chicks, aka get to kno them real quick, get the #, and save the ****y/funny for the date
 

88888888

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 12, 2006
Messages
20
Reaction score
0
6-heads lewis said:
Cod3r you got some balls, honestly, lotsa respect man. The security guard one was jokes. Had 3 and 4 happened to me id undoubtedly go back to my cave, hell most ppl (myself included) dont have the willpower to attempt it, let alone stomach bad results.

Keep it up, the results will come (probably, I cant tell the future). Ill try and join you guys when I go to Univ in Jan, but Im years behind on social skills, 1 approach/week at this point would be an accomplishment.

1 approach a week, ha. Try 1 approach a month at best, lol.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Top