"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
100 Approach commitment
- Thread starter gtownjuan
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
rushing dude 123
Master Don Juan
Entropy4
Don Juan
You're selling yourself SO SHORT here.
You could have four approaches in five minutes, IF YOU WANTED TO.
HOW BAD DO YOU WANT IT?
Seriously, ask yourself, what do you want? You want to meet more women. You want to be good with women. You want to **** women. THEN DO IT!
Nothing is stopping you except you.
Im just lacking motivation to initiate. I am working on my life now and i really do see the use of women as an accomplishment. Right now the focus is on me and i really dont care anymore about women.Entropy4 said:Four approaches in two months? COME ON DUDE!
You're selling yourself SO SHORT here.
You could have four approaches in five minutes, IF YOU WANTED TO.
HOW BAD DO YOU WANT IT?
Seriously, ask yourself, what do you want? You want to meet more women. You want to be good with women. You want to **** women. THEN DO IT!
Nothing is stopping you except you.
I went to this high school fair and approached all the hot girls i could find. I had the intention to solely practice my DJ skills so a close was the last thing (these girls are like 13-16 years old) . I approached like 8 girls, using a situational opener and only got rejected 2 times. These 2 just completely ignored me but i didn't care, i just went back to a former group of new friends and picked fun at them.
The approaches themself were short and i just tried to make friends with these girls.
something like this
I try to make eye contact, walk up to the girl
gtown: Hey do you go to M's Academy (the host of the fair)
Girl: Yea
gtown:What class?
Girl: xxxxx
gtown: Cool so what do you think of the fair?
Girl: blah blah blah
gtown: yea me too especially xxxxx
Girl: yea and xxxx
gtown: well im gtown (extends hand which they always shake)
Girl: and im girl....
gtown: nice to meet you .... see you around
Girl: bye
Afterwards i would see them next to me but i didn't follow up. i just waved or touched them or something.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
rushing dude 123
Master Don Juan
U will become good if u try, just think about it, the best thing u can do in the situation is go for it, no excuses, dosn't matter if shes on phone or not. because whats better getting a bit of experience or no experience at all?
I cud giv some more advice, but to b honest this can only b done by u, i changed first when i sat down on the bench in the mall and the fact of being average and the thought of staying in this same point in my whole life was so hard to deal with, i stepped up and approached the girl eating a bannana on the other bench "u look pretty cute whats ur number" and she actually gav it to me.
ps. see u in bootcamp cassanova