"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
rushing dude 123
Master Don Juan
Entropy4
Don Juan
You're selling yourself SO SHORT here.
You could have four approaches in five minutes, IF YOU WANTED TO.
HOW BAD DO YOU WANT IT?
Seriously, ask yourself, what do you want? You want to meet more women. You want to be good with women. You want to **** women. THEN DO IT!
Nothing is stopping you except you.
Im just lacking motivation to initiate. I am working on my life now and i really do see the use of women as an accomplishment. Right now the focus is on me and i really dont care anymore about women.Entropy4 said:Four approaches in two months? COME ON DUDE!
You're selling yourself SO SHORT here.
You could have four approaches in five minutes, IF YOU WANTED TO.
HOW BAD DO YOU WANT IT?
Seriously, ask yourself, what do you want? You want to meet more women. You want to be good with women. You want to **** women. THEN DO IT!
Nothing is stopping you except you.
I went to this high school fair and approached all the hot girls i could find. I had the intention to solely practice my DJ skills so a close was the last thing (these girls are like 13-16 years old) . I approached like 8 girls, using a situational opener and only got rejected 2 times. These 2 just completely ignored me but i didn't care, i just went back to a former group of new friends and picked fun at them.
The approaches themself were short and i just tried to make friends with these girls.
something like this
I try to make eye contact, walk up to the girl
gtown: Hey do you go to M's Academy (the host of the fair)
Girl: Yea
gtown:What class?
Girl: xxxxx
gtown: Cool so what do you think of the fair?
Girl: blah blah blah
gtown: yea me too especially xxxxx
Girl: yea and xxxx
gtown: well im gtown (extends hand which they always shake)
Girl: and im girl....
gtown: nice to meet you .... see you around
Girl: bye
Afterwards i would see them next to me but i didn't follow up. i just waved or touched them or something.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
rushing dude 123
Master Don Juan
U will become good if u try, just think about it, the best thing u can do in the situation is go for it, no excuses, dosn't matter if shes on phone or not. because whats better getting a bit of experience or no experience at all?
I cud giv some more advice, but to b honest this can only b done by u, i changed first when i sat down on the bench in the mall and the fact of being average and the thought of staying in this same point in my whole life was so hard to deal with, i stepped up and approached the girl eating a bannana on the other bench "u look pretty cute whats ur number" and she actually gav it to me.
ps. see u in bootcamp cassanova