8-9-05
8-9-05
Alright I am just going to consider this as my warm up day. I said hi to almost anyone who walked by me. 100 in 20 days now seems to much of a leap for ME. 50 would be acceptable, because I do not want to abandon this project out when i get behind my quota out of frustration, it is too important ... so sue me!
Secondly, what actually counts as an approach? Getting her name is what I am counting, but maybe its asking for phone number.
It is really hard for me to ask for a number after 2-3min of convo, so give advice on how to do that if you want.
#1
smoking outside i see girl walk by
catch up to her
"hi" we both smile, "hi"
"well i saw you walking by and I had to say hi, my name is Kinkyman what is yours?"
"girl1"
"ah i cant even pronounce that, where are you headed?"
"home"
"have a nice day" she smiles and waves
#2
buying lunch with headphones on
she says
"hey um can you sign this?"
"i cant hear you"
"umm"
"ah yeah i was trying to avoid paying"
"is this to go?"
"well i am going to take it outside"
i go outside, soon after she goes outside to wash tables with hose
-as fat guy squeezes by my bike-
"am i in the way? wow i hope im not causing a problem with my bike"
"yea it looks like you are a little, i am supposed to wash the tables"
"so how is this job? do they always make you do the grunt work?"
"well sometimes, i you know, make sandwiches, do you want me to wash your bike? where do you work?"
"i blah"
"actually i am in highschool"
-she walks off-
"where is a trash can out here?"
"oh right here"
"well hey what is your name? my name is Kinkyman"
"girl2"
"well it was nice meeting you, have fun with work"
"have fun livin"
#3
i smoking outside by apartments see girl on her patio
"hey i see someone there"
"oh hey"
-i walk up to her-
"oh i thought it was a different neighbor, how are you?"
"oh fine"
"well i just moved in here recently, i love meeting new neighbors"
"yea me too, havent talked to many yet"
"well my name is Kinkyman, whats yours?"
"girl3"
-we talk about my job and how i can get her to do a project that would be benefitial to us both
"well let me get your number, oh i dont have it on me"
"ok ill just leave a note for when we can meet about it"
Almost1:
i flirted with a cash register girl a bunch... actually had situational stuff, which had her laughing pretty good ... but alas i did not get her name. i will try to go back to her next tuesday i suppose.
Almost2:
missed a big one here, this girl was hanging with 2 guys where i was hanging out, and i meant to ask her if she was dating this one guy, i have seen her twice before and she both times hung out near me more and flirted. i leave to answer a phone call from the girl in my previous posts, and come back 80min later and the 2 guys are leaving and she is not there. i wont likely see her again due to her friends.
BTW:
that girl who i talked to said she didnt want a relationship because she would be the one getting hurt, i dont wanna talk about that deal anymore than that, but WTF
there are several other funny things and ideas after the fact that happened in the process of just smiling and saying hi to nearly everyone, but anyways
PS
in the convos, i have left out much stuff to keep some anonymitity, and cant remember things exactally .... also they go Me " " girl " " Me " " girl " " .
PPS
im trying to reach other goals right now, girls arent everything. today i actually looked at my classes and what i need to graduate, something i had been avoiding
