"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
10 years too young?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
HalfAddict
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you both considered consenting adults.
It would be different at 10/20 so don't get ideas weirdo.
DonJuanMonk
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ShizamDaMan
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If you're mature enough, then she will probably be too.
I dated her seriously for a year, and I ended up breaking it off with her.
But I dont look my age. Most people guess
me to be around 24-27. And I act like a complete goofball.
Age doesnt really matter if the chick is really into you.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
syncmaster
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yeah actually... is 10 ok?Originally posted by syncmaster
ROFL! I thought you were gonna be one of those idiots who wanted to know if it was ok to sleep w/ a 10yo if she consents. ROFL... yeah man 20-30 is cool.
but
yeah.. I know the title did sound that way.
Why think? Just do and let it play out.
20-30 is alot better than 17-27, or 18-28.
I've done 25-18, which sounds big, given that its H.s graduate to Post Grad school.
But it's life? What's there to lose except the experience?
I find the younger girls are immature, but still have their soft feminity. They'll be flaky, so be firm, but enjoy.
A-Unit
if younger guys new the type of sex they could get from older women, it woudl be younger chics who couldn't land a guy to save their life.
when you're young get hte older ones. when your older, get hte younger ones.
haha.
J
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My father is 13 years older than my mother and they've been married for over 25 years now.Originally posted by 00Kevin
Anyone here think that a man can have a good relationship with a woman that is 10 years younger then him?
anyone have any success?
for example a 20 year old with a 30 year old.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.