"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
10 years too young?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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you both considered consenting adults.
It would be different at 10/20 so don't get ideas weirdo.
DonJuanMonk
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ShizamDaMan
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If you're mature enough, then she will probably be too.
I dated her seriously for a year, and I ended up breaking it off with her.
But I dont look my age. Most people guess
me to be around 24-27. And I act like a complete goofball.
Age doesnt really matter if the chick is really into you.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
syncmaster
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yeah actually... is 10 ok?Originally posted by syncmaster
ROFL! I thought you were gonna be one of those idiots who wanted to know if it was ok to sleep w/ a 10yo if she consents. ROFL... yeah man 20-30 is cool.
but
yeah.. I know the title did sound that way.
Why think? Just do and let it play out.
20-30 is alot better than 17-27, or 18-28.
I've done 25-18, which sounds big, given that its H.s graduate to Post Grad school.
But it's life? What's there to lose except the experience?
I find the younger girls are immature, but still have their soft feminity. They'll be flaky, so be firm, but enjoy.
A-Unit
if younger guys new the type of sex they could get from older women, it woudl be younger chics who couldn't land a guy to save their life.
when you're young get hte older ones. when your older, get hte younger ones.
haha.
J
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My father is 13 years older than my mother and they've been married for over 25 years now.Originally posted by 00Kevin
Anyone here think that a man can have a good relationship with a woman that is 10 years younger then him?
anyone have any success?
for example a 20 year old with a 30 year old.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.