"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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10 RULES - For dating women 18 to 25 years old!

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Over the past few years i have been dating/fing women in that age group exclusively and i would like to pass on some rules of the game many of which i had to learn the hard way:

1. You must be physically attractive to them - they are very superficial and rate their own attractiveness by how attractive the guys they are fing are.

2. Be hip and instyle - you must know the new cool music movies etc. and act as if you like that stuff. You must dress like the dudes she crushes on from MTV and BET.

3. Her friends do 80% of her thinking for her - so you have to impress/attract them. Be extra friendly with than and alittle flirtatious. She will only want you if her friends want you to..

4. Patronize her - Most of them are not very smart but they know they dont need to be cause 99% of men want to f them. So treat her like she is intellectually adequate and interesting.

5. Compliment her looks - She is her looks! you would think that a young hotty would be tired of being told she hot but that is not so its like fuel in their ego driven gas tank.. Compliment her when you first see her then when you part..

6. Never call her more than she calls you - always seem busy and try to end calls first.. if she ends calls first your in trouble.

7. Always respond to her texts promptly but never type longer texts than hers.

8. Never let her control dates/plans - be brave enough to flake or randomly reschedule, tell then you are busy today etc. if you dont do it to them they will do it to you... these girls love thing they feel like they cant have.

9. Never give long detail clear explanations about anything - it turns them of and seems boring to them always be vague , sly, and whitty.

10. Do not expect loyalty exclusivity, maturity or consitency - these girls live fast and blow with the wind they seldom ever care cause they dont have to. The moment you find your self wondering where she is at or why she hasnt called you have lost the game..

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DonGorgon said:
10. Do not expect loyalty exclusivity, maturity or consitency - these girls live fast and blow with the wind they seldom ever care cause they dont have to. The moment you find your self wondering where she is at or why she hasnt called you have lost the game..
You nailed it on this one Don. I got a hottie 20 yo in the rotation right now and learned this one from her. Good thing I have a little pipeline going or she would have ruined many nights for me.

I got some rep points for you brother.
 

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****erdumbnuts said:
You nailed it on this one Don. I got a hottie 20 yo in the rotation right now and learned this one from her. Good thing I have a little pipeline going or she would have ruined many nights for me.

I got some rep points for you brother.
Yup i like to joke with my friends that you have to have 3 or 4 of these females to equal 1 good dependable woman...lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This seems more like it's concentrated on a certain type of woman within this age range (as many of these types of women there tends to be).
 

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Yep, all of these are great tips and are up to date. I especially like 7, 9, and 10. Never try to explain too much. Sometimes a few words are all you need.

The only one I don't completely agree with is number 3. I have been with a lot of chicks where her friends hated me. because they knew I was bad news, the bad boy and all. But as all DJ's know, our girls can't resist that and always come back for more. But, it never hurts to befriend her friends, it can only help you.

Some points to add:
11. Always control the frame. Starting from the first phone call, you take control of the situation. Plan a date, a time...suck her into your own reality. Whatever your frame is, suck her into it.

12. Create space. Basically, don't keep bugging her. Create some space between times you talk and meet up. This is a good example of push/pull. She'll be thinking of you and happy when you do call.
 

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most definatley agreed with 10..you cannot excpect anything from any hot girl worth dating to be exclusive to you...

o i have another one..you also have to have a pair of balls..the hotter they are the more stank there attitudes (not always) but girls like to go off..so you have to always keep your cool..
 

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Badmannaz said:
..but girls like to go off..so you have to always keep your cool..
Exactly.. they are testing you to see how much BS you will take.. if you take to much they label you a B!TCH an ur out.. But if you get to emotionally upset they also label you the same so ..stay cool and unaffected but strong.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I personally find them better. They're too young to be jaded so they're easier to date.

I've dated 28 year olds that acted like they were 12.

However, I agree with most of the points. I'll add this:

11. Don't be jealous. Ever.

She wants to party in tiny skirts and dance on speakers? Tell her that's hot.

Ex boyfriend wants to hang out? Tell her something like, maybe he'll be nicer. Go for it. Call me after and let me know how it goes.

Guys hitting on her? Tell her to let you know what they said because if it worked on her, then you can use it for after she leaves you for a guy who uses lines on her.
 
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