#1 Reason not to put an attractive girl/woman on a pedestal

[stuka1939]

It is natural thinking to put something/somebody that is good, pretty or attractive and rare on a pedestal.

Too many guys (myself included) when they meet an attractive girl still put her on a pedestal. I am NOT talking about the 9's and 10's either (who are rare). You know, your Hayden Pannateirre's, Jessica Simpsons, Raquel Welch's of the world. It would make sense to put women of this level of hotness on a pedestal since they are so few in number and very, very few women match them in hotness.

But many of us still do this with even the HB6's.

Many of you may disagree with me (due to a stricter HB scale) but I notice 6's, 7's especially and even 8's ARE NOT RARE. There are plenty of women like this in our society. Just go visit the local mall, look at female passengers sitting in traffic, walk around a campus or go to a club. You will realize PLENTY of women are actually quite cute and there are more of these women around than unattractive looking women.

Yet, when we meet a HB6-8 we still incorrectly think she is a rare specimen, that every man in society is ogling her and her only and we start to think we are not good enough. However in reality, there are hundreds or even thousands of other girls in your local area out there who are just as attractive or better than the girl you have on a pedestal.

Of course, there are plenty of girls out there who are not physically attractive, BUT THEY ARE NOT IN THE MAJORITY. So, unless the girl you like looks like what most guys consider a HB 9 or 10, there is NO REASON TO FEEL THE NEED TO PUT HER ON A PEDESTAL.

So, the key is. STOP THINKING YOUR HB6, HB7 or HB8 is a RARE BREED like no other and should be put on a pedestal. NOT EVERYMAN IS AFTER YOUR GIRL, THEY ARE BUSY CHASING AROUND THE THOUSANDS OF OTHER WOMEN WHO ARE JUST AS GOOD LOOKING OR HOTTER THAN THE GIRL YOU LIKE.

 

[MotownMack]

Actually, the need not to put her on a pedestal increases proportionally with looks.
You're right, you shouldn't do it any of girls, really- but it's even more critical when you reach the 8+ category, since that is what the majority of guys have done to them in the past.

It's not a coincidence that you hear many very attractive girls saying that all they ever seem to find is jerks, players, or guys who won't commit to them. That's because they continually reject the AFCs they claim they want, sighting just not being attracted to them as the primary reason- because they're actually attracted to the guys who have options and don't kiss their a$$.

I am still a DJ in training, but from the HB's I have gone out with-there definitely seems to be correlation, that the better looking they are, the more of this DJ stuff applies. This I have experienced first hand.

 

[slaog]

Actually, the need not to put her on a pedestal increases proportionally with looks.
You're right, you shouldn't do it any of girls, really- but it's even more critical when you reach the 8+ category, since that is what the majority of guys have done to them in the past.

It's not a coincidence that you hear many very attractive girls saying that all they ever seem to find is jerks, players, or guys who won't commit to them. That's because they continually reject the AFCs they claim they want, sighting just not being attracted to them as the primary reason- because they're actually attracted to the guys who have options and don't kiss their a$$.

I am still a DJ in training, but from the HB's I have gone out with-there definitely seems to be correlation, that the better looking they are, the more of this DJ stuff applies. This I have experienced first hand.

100% true for me too. Was talking to an attractive girl lately who is intelligent and smart but single and said she is attracted to bad boys who don't need her. I told her she was confused, she didn't want a badboy she wanted a real man because real men don't need any woman.

 

[LostAndConfused]

#1 reason: they are just another sack of meat, and they most DEFINITELY do not deserve being put on a pedestal any more than the regular average joe who goes through more trouble in his life then she can ever comprehend.

 

[Gubby]

Cos hotness is so common it's laughable.

Cos HB# is subjective and makes no sense.

Cos you could just **** an inflatable doll if you're so shallow. Real human beings have something more inside of them.

 

[SinJester]

We shouldn't out 9s of '10s' on a pedestal either because that would hurt our game.

 

[shinko]

I must live in an ugly area then or something. Even 7's are quite rare around my way.......
Your points still ring true though