1 minute ejaculation :(

[Gamble]

So this chick and I were at my house; and she was real tired from work in the morning. It was about 12a.m-2a.m. and she had major LMR cause she was too tired to f***. It was getting me irritated and I almost gave up. So I let her take a nap in my arms and then I f***** her right after but it only lasted 1 minute before I came. So what I tried to do during the sex was go down on her to get my mind off of it and she would not let me. So I asked her to sit on it and she said she didn't want to. How do I get her to open up in the bedroom? Keep in mind this is only the second time we have done it. Should I talk to her about it, or would that seem too desperate?

 

[StoneColdFox]

LMAO

Please please someone else handle this hahaha..

Ok, here we go.


For starters, open up in the bed room??

Man she was tired, i've had days like that when I haven't wanted to f*** because work was a *****, and thats saying alot. lol

Your game is all whack, if you want to have sex with her, wait for the right time and wait for a time where you can have enough foreplay and set a good enough mood..instead of waking her up from a nap and trying to f*** her, you rapist.

Sounding desperate?? How about trying to f*** her when she comes home, then after her nap, you already are acting desperate when she says no, then.. no!

You have alot more issues then your girl not wanting you to give her oral, maybe if you stopped being such a pushy, premature, bastard then she'd open up more.

The man problem here is your prematurity.

Since i'm such a nice guy, read these articles.

http://www.askmen.com/love/drzimmer/14_love_answers.html

http://www.askmen.com/love/dzimmer/49_love_answers.html

Now, maybe you're going to get some if you aren't pushy and can last more then a minute. Let's push for atleast five.

 

[Gamble]

well the 1st time we did it, it lasted for 10. But damn you are right about the pushyness..... What should I do next time? I should just wait on it then...

 

[StoneColdFox]

You need to stop having expectations.

You need to enjoy her company and most of all, Just let it happen.

If she wants to sleep or says she's to tired, there is nothing wrong with just holding her for the night.

I'm not saying don't be a sexual person, and i'm not saying you must cater to all of her sexual needs and opinions and only hers. But I am saying that pushing sex on her is only going to lead to bad things.

So.. just let things happen man.. relax.