1 girl 2 doods

[nice_guyeh]

few weeks ago im at my family friends house, every year there is a party thing..

i bring a buddy, there's like 60 ppl. lots of adults but good amount of kids my age (19)
there's this girl iv known for time, 1 yr younger. shes cute, cool girl.
My buddy and i were both flirting joking around with her etc..
kinda turned into a competition, who could get her kinda thing.
i saw this, and backed off a bit, he was going hard so i thought i would stay a little more laxed and let him push hard kinda thing. hoping she would be like wtf, why he not chasing me, make her come to me sort of.

just wonder what do you do in that kinda situation?
Where you and another male are after the same girl..

thanks

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

you never finished the story.... She went with him? She went home? What happened?

 

[nice_guyeh]

nah she didnt go with either, everyone jus crashed at like 4 after someone be snappin that we loud and up late lool. she add me on fb, chat her up a bit. rather talk in person tho, msging is kinda wack.. can mess up your relationship with the person imo. My bud was all over her like glue, was cheezin me a bit.. but again, let him try and hopefully fail lmao.. even tho hes my bud

doesnt really matter what was going on, i wana know what do you do in that situation, where 2 people are after the same girl

 

[Purefilth]

Ill generally leave my buddy to it and look for someone else, its not worth a friendship its only a piece of ass, when he fails miserably for clinging all over her, take a shot but only when he realises hes failed

 

[Mike32ct]

Don't get in a tug-of-war over a chick, especially with your buddy.

Just walk away and find another girl.

If you were talking to a girl and some strange guy moves in, that's different, but competing with your buddy is silly.

In cases like this, there is usually no "winner" anyway except for the girl who enjoys the drama.

 

[AAAgent]

Don't get in a tug-of-war over a chick, especially with your buddy.

Just walk away and find another girl.

If you were talking to a girl and some strange guy moves in, that's different, but competing with your buddy is silly.

In cases like this, there is usually no "winner" anyway except for the girl who enjoys the drama.

^^This.

If an AFC goes in, chilling back and relaxing after you've introduced yourself like a gentleman will probably draw her closer to you. It's always worked for me. Sometimes i never even talk to girls and they come talk to me. If you have a beta talking to a HB and an alpha doing his own thing, the HB will go after the alpha.

However if the guy is a player/jerk or a DJ, getting before you makes it almost impossible to get the girl without turning it into a tug of war.

Either way, just sit back and do your own thing.

 

[nice_guyeh]

Alright cool, and yes i understand my buddy over the girl thing.
and if its not my buddy? im out drinking and same thing happens cept i odnt know the guy..what should i do in that situation? again if its tug a war i dont want to come off like i neeeeeeeeeeeeeeed you girl. but also dont want the guy to have a good game

 

[Mike32ct]

Alright cool, and yes i understand my buddy over the girl thing.
and if its not my buddy? im out drinking and same thing happens cept i odnt know the guy..what should i do in that situation? again if its tug a war i dont want to come off like i neeeeeeeeeeeeeeed you girl. but also dont want the guy to have a good game

I actually have some experience with this, but I'd rather not give this tips out publicly. I will PM them to you.