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I know what you mean. Perhaps I am more traditional in some ways. What about when you're not the bad boy/jerk, and you're not the nice guy. you're at this middle ground? thats how I feel.Also, I have been thinking, perhaps its not me as much as i think it is. just the culture, the hook up culture as you call it. I mean, this site has opened my eyes to alot, I am wondering,without turning it into a blame game, if the way or ways i was raised affected me. I do have this idea of an ideal, i said ideal, not perfect, wife. But I realize, I would have to hold myself to certain standards. I mean sure, I have had some **** ups, some really bad ones, somethings i regret, in that there were times when i was just mean to people. esp when i was younger. But I never bought into that find an excuse not to grow up thing. As for dry spells, is 2 years considered a long dry spell?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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