"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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1 Day Theory

Stefanoski

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I think if you spent one day with any single women, theres a 90% chance that you would end up dating her. Why? Picture this: You're attracted to a girl, she could be a close friend or someone you've just met. Either way you're close enough for her not to turn you down if you ask her out for lunch. It's crucial that you know exactly where you intend to take her, maybe even buy her a gift depending on what kind of girl she is. Anyway, pick her up from her house and as you travel towards the intended destination make sure you keep the conversation flowing. Once you reach wherever, make sure you're not eating the same thing as she is, this way you can increase the intimacy by feeding her or letting her try your food etc.. I dont mean this in a grotty or un-hygenic way, or encouraging you to offer her a big oozing handfull of spaghetti. let's just hope you know what i mean. You also need to promote physical contact whenever possible, maybe hold hands with her while you're walking or take her hand when you're sitting at the table with her, use your imagination. To wrap things you mite take her to the movies. After everything, walk her home and maybe get a kiss from her before she goes inside. Anyone see how this wouldnt lead to something? Im in a hurry, so im pretty sure i left out quite a few things.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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are you new here or this a second account, because i do not think you should really be attempting to come up with 'theorys' for your first post, because to put it simply to you, you are completly wrong.

Sure it could work in theory if you do the right things, but remember that if she does not like you before it is because you are not doing the right things to attract her.

so if you put ths in to practice you will find out you act the same as you do normaly, so if she has not fallen for that she will not fall for you because of it, just due to spending a day with her.

imagine you have started trying somthing new and do not like it, if you decided to spend the whole day trying that somthing new, its not going to make you like it more is it. well i would imagine it would not happen very frequently at best of times.
 

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The only thing salvageable is the idea that a day-long date is easier on you for deciding to do such-and-such and for her to agree. But you missed out on attraction and chemistry, and lots of other stuff.

If all it took was spending a day with somebody I'd be wooing women like a slut.
 
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