"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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1.5 year LTR --> bam

Griffith

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Yeah, so it's over. I frequented the DJ forums religiously back in the day, but then I figured -- hey, what gives. It's been over a year, time to BE A ****ING AFC.

BAM *****ES, BAM. Right when I had that mentality, I got ****ing owned. And now it's over. Never let your goddamn guard down peeps.

Time to get back into top shape and become the alpha I once was.

-Griff
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HereToImprove

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I've been there Griff, only mine was 3 1/2 years. Good luck getting back into the game. You have come to the right place.
 

MidnightResistance

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Sometimes even the best of us fall.

Now get back on that horse.
 
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