"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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1-2 mistakes it's over?

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drift king

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i did everything right with this young HB i semi kiss closed her on 2nd date, left it a week then tried to arrange another date but the 2 times i called she was with her friends or with family so i couldn't arrange time then.

then i called her saturday and made arrangement for tonight saying 'i'm busy tomorrow (sunday) but do u want to meet up monday?'

i know i know afc line, dont ask just say meet up. so i was kicking myself after. anyway she cancelled our meeting tonight yesterday cos her dad is leaving the country but she didn't counter offer.

i already had been flaked on by my other option for that night so i proceeded to call this one and try to get her to meet up last night. big mistake, then i tried for tuesday and she said 'i dont want to make any plans yet' i already made her reserve monday for me before her dad incident so i wasn' sure if i should use the same line again.

i feel as if i'm being pushy if i try to be assertive and making me do all the arranging. and slowly as they flake once or twice i'm showing my neediness/clingyness. how do i avoid this in arranging times?

do i need to tell them to let me know? i feel that they won't offer a time cos their interest isn't really high but enough to go out on a date with me.

the worst bit is i called her back again 20 mins later. god i was so needy yesterday. she didn't pick up.

i've probably ruined it now but is the general rule of thumb that if u make a mistake it delays u by about a week before you can call back or is it about 4-5 days for each mistake?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sounds like somthing i have done in the past. First. Dont give here the chance to chose when to talk to you. That will make you a big AFC in her eyes. You are the one that makes all the choises. When it comes too when to contact here after you litle incident. I would wait a week or so. Then come one easy and keep it abit light. And dont rush in and try to set up a new date right a way. Thats my advice :)
 
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