That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Having lower than 5% is bad for the body since it interferes with the body making hormones and other chemicals. I've been from 6-18 percent and I can honestly say that I was best around 7-12%.The Sperminator said:Hydrostatic Testing and that electronic bodyfat anaylzer but that one isn't that accurate at all. The hydrostatic testing is suppose to be very accurate. I used to lift weights twice a day and run miles every morning plus I was on the wrestling team and had to lose massive amounts of weight. Not only that but I'm naturally skinny and didn't eat junk food at all. I felt crappy though. The only reason why I was so low was because of the dropping of weight. I think the best I felt was at about 8 percent. Thats when I didn't cut weight.
That's what I did. I wasn't eating a lot, but i was lifting 5 days a week for 60-90 minutes and then would do sprints for like 30 min. Then maybe in the afternoon go jogging or rollerblading. Looking back at my pictures even my face was skinny and stupid looking. That's how i will know when to stop my recomp: when my face gets too skinny.The Sperminator said:I used to lift weights twice a day and run miles every morning plus I was on the wrestling team and had to lose massive amounts of weight. Not only that but I'm naturally skinny and didn't eat junk food at all. I felt crappy though.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.