Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
And I've seen a janitor that drove a Z06 Vette. He just didn't spend money on anything else.Shiftkey said:I kinda doubt that's accurate Poohead. Half of the houses here in OC are getting close to 1mil in value and most home owners here aren't making nearing that much (though they are still much higher than the national average).
nope.poohead said:at least 200,000-300,000 a year just to buy the house.
yup.Shiftkey said:I kinda doubt that's accurate Poohead. Half of the houses here in OC are getting close to 1mil in value and most home owners here aren't making nearing that much (though they are still much higher than the national average).
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
BS. 90k will NOT get you $4.5mil in houses. Hes doing SOMETHING else. Gap doesnt have cheap clothes just so you know. So what exactly does your dad do?chickenlegs03 said:nope.
yup.
we have 5 houses in cali. a $2mil, a $1.3mil, an $800k, a $500k, and a $200k.
my dad is the only one who works in my family. he makes around $90k.
it all comes down to not being an idiot with your money. don't buy the $200 shoes and $300 jeans. instead buy your clothes at gap and get a $1mil house and a benz. it's a trade-off. make the right choices, you don't have to be a gazillionaire to live lavishly. and don't get into debt. build good credit.
diplomatic_lies said:Most houses in my area are worth $1M now (although in Aus dollars). Most owners seem to be doctors/lawyers/sales managers, so their income is probably $50-100K.
Either you're full of it, or he's got mattress money coming in, or they're investment properties making income.chickenlegs03 said:nope.
yup.
we have 5 houses in cali. a $2mil, a $1.3mil, an $800k, a $500k, and a $200k.
my dad is the only one who works in my family. he makes around $90k.
actually, nope.oakraiderz2 said:BS. 90k will NOT get you $4.5mil in houses. Hes doing SOMETHING else. Gap doesnt have cheap clothes just so you know. So what exactly does your dad do?
dude, i was wondering what that white powdery stuff was on the edges...chalk maybe? i heard teaching utensils are growing businesses right now, especially with education and the no child left behind thing getting more funding.The Antichrist_Star said:Chickenlegs...
Those saran wrapped/duct tape 'packages' that are coming to your house(s) aren't from Fed Ex my friend.
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Depends on how you come into it. If you make all that mula selling your house, your first thought is "oh sh!t now I'm homeless". Your second thought (unless your name is STR8UP) is "holy sh!t I wanna buy something". And if you're really twisted, you make your woman literally scream by suggesting you put it all down on red at a roulette table.But if I came into a large amount of money, the first thing I'd think would be "YES! Bespoke suit!" rather than "YES! New car!"