Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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❤ Feedback on my website please

White Boy

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Hey guys I just launched my new website.

It's supposed to go along with my YouTube channel so people get more acquainted with me.

I just need feedback on your first impressions of the site. I'm thinking it looks pretty good so far

Thank you haha

Pokeflirt.com
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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White Boy said:
Last chance to respond you guys

It's all-white boy nothing special.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
It's all-white boy nothing special.
Is english your second language?

I didn't understand that at all, sorry :/
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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White Boy said:
Is english your second language?

I didn't understand that at all, sorry :/
Really didnt get that?vvvv
Naughty Ninja said:
It's all-white boy nothing special.
you may as well quit school, that last year of it aint gonna do shiiiiiit for you






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white boy said:
Yes I didn't understand, that's why I left a comment saying I didn't understand.

Guess you're not the sharpest either
well thats not very nice is it. and there was me about to explain veryslowly so that you could've understood properly.


Now I'm not even going to bother, you went and hurt my feelings.
 

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Yes I didn't understand, that's why I left a comment saying I didn't understand.

Guess you're not the sharpest either
 

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Hey man, really like your stuff. I wish I was as chill as you are when I was your age. You look like you're having fun which is the most important thing. Honestly you may be young but you could teach a few guys on here to stop being so damn serious. Also, the videos are really well made. You definitely have a bright future.
 

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Is english your second language?

I didn't understand that at all, sorry :/

I'd say thinking comes second to posting in your case.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Voice said:
Hey man, really like your stuff. I wish I was as chill as you are when I was your age. You look like you're having fun which is the most important thing. Honestly you may be young but you could teach a few guys on here to stop being so damn serious. Also, the videos are really well made. You definitely have a bright future.
Hey thanks a lot dude I appreciate that. Some people take things way to seriously in my opinion... Especially on the internet.

Your post is pretty awesome though, I hope I can go pretty far with the whole dating channel thing! I've learned a lot from this forum, especially Pooks threads and all the archived stuff. So yeah I hope I can share this site's knowledge and help some other people out :)
 

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sorry i posted this in the wrong forum
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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for what it is, it's not half bad honestly.

the only issue I have with it is the pagination is a little too much.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
It's all-white boy nothing special.
This sentence does not make sense. Stop trying to act like no one gets it because they're dumb, just and edit it, for f*ck's sake.
 

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This sentence does not make sense. Stop trying to act like no one gets it because they're dumb, just and edit it, for f*ck's sake.
Try saying it in a c0ckney accent then.

Sad having to explain a joke to someone... Makes me feel like I'm talking to a girl..


And noone else had an issue, just you and white boy.

Well done your brain is on par with a slow witted 17 year old.

:crackup:
 
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backbreaker said:
for what it is, it's not half bad honestly.

the only issue I have with it is the pagination is a little too much.
Thanks for the feedback backbreaker. It feels good to know people don't immediately click away after checking it haha

I think the page layout needs to stay the same though. I don't think I can change it with the theme style.

But I really wanted a video/image based website. I especially like my site now because it's completely optimized for mobile phones and tablets, so it looks the same across those devices. I wanted to copy what Facebook is going for, and you probably already know, Facebook is changing their 2013 layout and making everything about big pictures and big videos

The only thing I need now is an email list. But I'm saving up for an aweber account
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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