"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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♥ We women still love men !! ♥

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Well, I realize after feminism, there has been more hate between men and women than ever before. I'm surprised there isn't a gender war. Anyways, I know that feminism has brainwashed SOME women so much that they emotionally and physically hurt men. Anyway... I just wanted to remind you that there are some women out there that still do love you ♥ (like me !! :) )!!

Just stay away from manly dumb women and girls who go to bars and get drunk...they arent good!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I smell a Ninja! :D
 

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Love<3 said:
I'm surprised there isn't a gender war.
There still is; we've never left the 70s-the same battles are still being fought. But the hippies would like you to just forget about it and follow their way.
 

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We love you as long as you...

dont whorrrrr yourself out to others while we are with you.

Dont stab us in the back

dont bite our hand that feeds you.

dont betray us

dont tread us when we are down

dont discard us if something better comes along

dont ask us to buy this and that

look after us when we are sick

dont gives us crap when u r on the rag


yeah.. i thought as much.....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mikey2012 said:
We love you as long as you...

dont whorrrrr yourself out to others while we are with you.

Dont stab us in the back

dont bite our hand that feeds you.

dont betray us

dont tread us when we are down

dont discard us if something better comes along

dont ask us to buy this and that

look after us when we are sick

dont gives us crap when u r on the rag


yeah.. i thought as much.....
Honestly, if any women behaves like that to her husband/bf... I think the guy should just dump her.. I honestly hate women who bltch to their bf and don't know how to talk to someone who loves her so much. In a relationship, both partners should love, care, and be supportive to each other!! If not... Just leave them!
 

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Lets not forget that it is possible to love AND hate some b1tch at the same time.. like I did to my oneitis. I loved her alot.. and hated her just the same.
 

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YAboi said:
We love you too.
Aww... How sweet cute :)

To the rest of the guys: the type of women you are describing are feminists,.. Most normal and anti feminist women are very loving to their husband/bf
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's obvious you're someone's alt here trying to get the member's picture here. F*ck off already.
 

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Love<3 said:
Aww... How sweet cute :)

To the rest of the guys: the type of women you are describing are feminists,.. Most normal and anti feminist women are very loving to their husband/bf
This changes everything!
 

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Atom Smasher said:
The reality is that he's describing the vast majority. This is precisely why sites like this even exist.
Exactly, guys don't stumble upon this site because their relationships are going great. 80% of the guys on here probably found SS because their relationship (like mine) was on the outs because their girl decided to do most of the things mikey listed.
 

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God dammit you all are so stupid sometimes. If this was a real woman, would she only post super short responses to everything? Would she always try and be on your side? Would she never be sarcastic with you? All her/his posts are sarcastic.

And all that aside, these are the most cliche posts ever. They're just summarized stereotypes how ditsy women should be like. I'd cuss you out for fooling the rest of these [insert-comment-referring-to-idiocy-here] people here but I'd probably get banned for that.

Leave already.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't understand... When women act like feminists and insult, you don't like it. And now, I'm praising me and you don't like that either? What do you want?
 

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Love<3 said:
I don't understand... When women act like feminists and insult, you don't like it. And now, I'm praising me and you don't like that either? What do you want?
Men are as emotionally crazy and fvcked up as you. Dont worry too much.
 

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Miss love heart, tell us about your last two long term relationships and/or marriages. How long together? What did he do wrong? What did you do wrong? Who ended it and why? And how old are you now?
 

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This is a male posing as female.

A troll account.

Please stop taking him seriously.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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