Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Finally [once again] got over the fear of kissing girls at the end of a date for sure. Learned my lesson from that first girl on the first page of this journal!

Went out with this girl to watch stand up comedy at a cafe and pay bills on the wifi with my laptop. While we were sitting she was touching my leg with her foot (IOI) and being pleasant in general. Made her ride my BMX bike around to get some kino in there. Our faces got close a few times and she didn't pull back. Kissed her at the end of the nigh with no problems. The fact that she did all of those little things pretty much made me realize she liked me and would have been receptive towards the kiss.

Great to have these reference experiences. The girl is really pretty and interesting so I;m excited to see her again soon.

Need to stop with the junk food and porn again though. And it seems I've replaced my energy drink addiction with a Coca-Cola addiction. Started doing some intense internal review of myself to see what is triggering these addictive and self destructive behaviors, and what I can do to stop them.

Once I get over those rather mild hurdles, a new level of game will open up for me.

Lastly, stopped writing with the purple font. Just don't feel like making the effort to make my posts stand out at this time in my life.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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