"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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    Going completely blank after approaching at clubs

    I will usually open with something pretty standard like: "Hey how's it going? I just wanted to meet you real quick." After the opener, I will introduce myself and ask how they know each other but it rarely gets more than a few words out of them. I then proceed to go into interview mode...
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    Showing premise

    Or as Todd V says, to let the girl know I have a penis. I'm failing at doing this quite a lot. I've nailed the social part, after being severly introverted all my life, I can now talk to anyone. But now I'm trying to up my game. I can kino escalate well if things are going well verbally, but...
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