"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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  1. resilient

    Baltasar Gracián

    Lately I've been going back to my DJ roots. When I found SoSuave over a decade ago, I was getting into a lot of psychology, philosophy, sociology, and in general, empirical thinking at the time trying to understand myself, career aspirations, social skills, women, etc.. I found some wise old...
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