"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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old is not dead

  1. marmel75

    Wanted to see if OLD is as bad as eveeyone keeps saying. TLDR it isn't.

    So I decided to create a profile on POF just for fun and to see what would happen. I have been out of the loop for quite a while with this and maybe things have changed since Ive been on there. Maybe the things I used to do and am advocating others go do stopped working at some point. Maybe the...
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