"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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  1. P

    Met a girl (she works there) at whole foods.....need advice on the close

    "she is all surface lacking any depth an unfathomable abyss" Alright so, wow. I haven't felt this way in...years tbh. Not just simply because of the direct amount of interest I have for her, but how good I feel about myself and look right now. I have been turning heads from hb9s all day long...
  2. AJHook

    Going Dutch. Feedback is valued...

    Greetings all! I've been reading on this forum for a while now and recently decided to join. This is my first post and I'm going to dive right in: I personally never, if only rarely, pay for the woman in the early goings. In some places, paying for the woman is the cultural expectation. In...
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