"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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  1. dman

    She is Chinese just out of 3 year relationship. Is into me but...

    First time poster here. Here are the cliff notes of my situation. Looking for advice on how to play this. I met her while she was on vacation. She is from mainland China, was in an unhappy relationship for 3 years. Was supposed to marry and have kids (society pressure), but that plus the fact...
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