"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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    Autorejection by too much or too little?

    Im confused by what caused this girl to completely ghost after an awesome date where she was very keen. Quick story, matched on Tinder - she said I was cute, however she was terrible at replying. Nevertheless I persisted and she offered her number without me asking. Again took long time to...
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