"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey guys i need help big time i found my problem i can become friends easilly with guys but not with girls. They think i'm loud and weird just cause i swear how the hell do u treat women somethings u push they love somethings u are gently with they hate women are another species cause they make no sense and i need help. I'm gonna get down to the point and say HOW DO I BECOME FRIENDS WITH GIRLS AND KEEP THAT FRIENDSHIP MOVING UP? THANX
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why do you want to be friends with girls? You should want to hook up with them.
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Why do you want to be friends with girls?
Having girls around you builds solid social proof and it is great for hooking up with their friends that go to other schools.
Being friends with girls is alright if you know what your doing. I mean this by saying don't soak up all their complaining and whining. You want the best side of them to listen to.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by gravstar
Having girls around you builds solid social proof and it is great for hooking up with their friends that go to other schools.
Being friends with girls is alright if you know what your doing. I mean this by saying don't soak up all their complaining and whining. You want the best side of them to listen to.
I know this, but this kid had thementality that he wants girls to be his friends.
 

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become friends with girls as you would with anyone else, respect, positive, and never bring your problems to them, always talk about your positive experiences.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wow you really need to learn some typing skills. How old are you, 12?
 

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Wow you really need to learn some typing skills. How old are you, 12?
 
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