"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Political forum?

Levex

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Since there are no political threads allowed anywhere on the site because they usually get out of hand and everyone starts flaming each other(it is the reason isnt it?), why not just make a political "anything else" sub-forum where people can come and b1tch at each other all they want?
It will make mods' lives easier cause they wont have to close numerous threads, members will have a place to discuss politics, and it wont bother anyone who doesnt want to participate.

Just a thought. :cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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diablo

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Originally posted by Levex
members will have a place to discuss politics,
Members already do have a place to discuss politics and any variation thereof. Another site.
 

CapiCrimini

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let me offer Abeeda.com
your free to talk politics thier... if you don't infd my site suiting try politics.com ...
 

m4a1

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What's with this new fad??

Let's make a financial forum!
Let's make a political forum!
Let's make a pimp forum!
Let's make a flame forum!
Let's make an expert forum!

This is a dumb suggestion, there are a lot of forums that deal with politics. It doesn't take a Don Juan to understand politics...
 

Levex

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Originally posted by m4a1
What's with this new fad??

Let's make a financial forum!
Let's make a political forum!
Let's make a pimp forum!
Let's make a flame forum!
Let's make an expert forum!

This is a dumb suggestion, there are a lot of forums that deal with politics. It doesn't take a Don Juan to understand politics...
Let's make a shut the **** up forum just for you.

Diablo: Sure there are other sites,but anything else forum here is full of inane threads. I bet lot of people stop coming to these forums just because nothing worthwhile is going on.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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m4a1

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Keep this on a professional level, not a personal one.

I'll do anything you want if your wish is granted (political forum was made)
In the meantime, your suggestion is stupid, and a political forum will never be made on sosuave.
 

Vincent

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Politic threads = Lots of views and replies
Lots of views and replies = lots of bandwith req
Lots of bandwith req = Lots of money
Lots of money = No more free forum


We don't want that, now do we?
 

Levex

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Originally posted by Vincent
Politic threads = Lots of views and replies
Lots of views and replies = lots of bandwith req
Lots of bandwith req = Lots of money
Lots of money = No more free forum


We don't want that, now do we?
That makes sense. I forgot that there are no ad banners on this site. Then yeah, it makes no sense to allow political threads cost-wise.

But eventually this site will grow to few dozen thousand members,so it wont be free either way :(
 

CapiCrimini

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The site, from my understanding, stabelizes and pays for itself through the Book and adds on the front page[they arn't big flashy pop-ups, but in the tips you'll find one every now and then advertising David DeAngelo or someone.]

Just be happy everything is dating related and we don't have those stupid VOTE BUSH and VOTE KERRY.pop-ups.

If you are intrested in politics check out http://fundrace.org/ It tells you who donated in your area or wherever by adress or zipcode... pretty neat.

Anyway I do think this can be locked?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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