"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I was walking on a rather quiet side walk today where there were a few people around, and this girl was coming from the opposite direction; the moment she looked at me she smiled as if she saw the love of her life.

I didn't hesitate, turned back immediately and got close to her (Less than 30 seconds from the moment she smiled). Once I approached her and was walking besides her, I said hi; She stopped right there hysterically and ORDERED me to move along with a loud voice. I smiled and said nah you move along I Don't want anything to do with you. Again she ordered me to move along and I said "NO! I'm standing right here, YOU GTFO[rough translation]". WTF?! Was she afraid of getting stabbed from behind? LMFAO:crackup: Why smile like a loose hoe if you don't want to talk? I just said hi.

She almost ran away like a lunatic clown. Anyone else with similar shocking experiences?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I approached like a considerate gentleman, furthermore, smiling back and saying hi when someone smiles at you is not creepy.


Good points found via google search :
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http://www.healthboards.com/boards/3950196-post2.html
 
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lol dude you took way too long you should have been like hi, I'm Suspens, lovin your style -- or whatever, point is she smiled at you and you went trailed her for 30 seconds on a dimly lit street. My last daygame open was a 1030PM on a dimly lit street from behind. Of course thats cause she was walking faster than me and passed me. Once she passed me I opened in 3 seconds thereby avoiding "trail mode"
 
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I just said 'Hi' to myself and then counted to 30. 30 seconds doesn't sound like much but its an awfully long time when you're sitting there doing nothing. Not that I think the time was a major factor here. She was probably one of those fruit cakes who goes around smiling at everyone because she thinks she's spreading a little bit of happiness around the world because she wants to believe that she's a good person really and not the nasty b1tch everybody's told her she is. Well that didn't last long, did it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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you should have asked her if she was off her meds.
 
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Based on some of your other approaches you've described... I think it's you.

Your timing, mannerisms/body language and spoken word are probably not what you perceive them to be.
 
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