You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Back to men shaming tactics, for our resident female troll.jurry said:Yup agree with el payaso, one of the most pathetic articles ive ever read.
Sadly this is par for the course for much of the manosphere - men who have supposedly embraced the "red pill" yet have no balls and sit around whining about being a victim to society and evil hypergamous women.
What a bunch of pvssies, no wonder they aren't getting laid.
If thats what you need to tell yourself to support the delusional, loser mentality displayed in that article.. Cool.LMFAO said:Back to men shaming tactics, for our resident female troll.
El Payaso said:That looks so cowardly. They basically receded in life and gave up. As a man, you shouldn't be looking to a woman asking her what she wants of you. You should look to yourself and ask yourself what you want of you.
Anyone that doesn't like it can go f*ck themselves. You have to learn in life that not everyone will be attracted to you if you pander to them but you sure will get a lot of respect and maybe even a few who are attached to you because you are your own man.
Gynoculture blares out through a megaphone for 40 years, "Idonneedaman, donneedaman, donneedaman, inthepenthent! inthepenthent! Empowered! Empowered!"jurry said:If thats what you need to tell yourself to support the delusional, loser mentality displayed in that article.. Cool.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Honestly I can relate to the guys "withdrawing cowardly." When I was going through puberty, which is probably starting to end now, I was confused with girls as all hell. My mom or sisters didn't really teach me anything about girls so I had to pay attention to other sources that just "made sense" to me. These sources were anything from copying T.V shows, movies, youtube videos, google questions, and friends experiences/perspectives. All of them said the same things too so it must be right? After all, it is logical to give a girl "x" and she would give you "x" in return right? Not sure if it's just my generation or it's part of yours too but that's just what I was told and saw on media etc...El Payaso said:That looks so cowardly. They basically receded in life and gave up. As a man, you shouldn't be looking to a woman asking her what she wants of you. You should look to yourself and ask yourself what you want of you.
Anyone that doesn't like it can go f*ck themselves. You have to learn in life that not everyone will be attracted to you if you pander to them but you sure will get a lot of respect and maybe even a few who are attached to you because you are your own man.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I'm not a Paul fan, either. But I think he was taken out of context. The anti-sex verses are mostly in Corinthians I & II, which were letters to the church of Corinth. He was trying to persuade them from going to the pagan fvck-fest orgies that were popular there. That was how a lot of competing religions operated - give us your money and we'll get you some pvssy, either from pagan ritual orgies or from temple priestess prostitutes.Poonani Maker said:this Sex = Evil thing was ALL Paul's shoving on people. Jesus NEVER said these things.
The hypocrisy of accusing someone else of shaming men, and then shaming that man with an insult because he has a negative opinion on a sh!te article.LMFAO said:Back to men shaming tactics, for our resident female troll.
This.El Payaso said:That looks so cowardly. They basically receded in life and gave up. As a man, you shouldn't be looking to a woman asking her what she wants of you. You should look to yourself and ask yourself what you want of you.
Anyone that doesn't like it can go f*ck themselves. You have to learn in life that not everyone will be attracted to you if you pander to them but you sure will get a lot of respect and maybe even a few admirers or people who are attraced to you because you are your own man.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.