"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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girls taking forever to reply/dont initiate texts

pyros

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So, I know these two girls, girlA and girlB.

GirlA: I've banged her once, then stopped seing her for over a month, and now we reinitiated contact. We've been on seven dates but SHE NEVER TEXTS ME. She's done it twice out of 15 texts we've exchanged (or so).

GirlB: says she doesnt pay attention to her phone, neither to facebook or any other social media or tecnology. We've exchanged around 8 messages and she takes around 7 hours to reply, each time, or even more!
We've just gone out once.

I try to simplify things and think that both girls have little interest and this is why one never initiates texts, and why the other takes forever to reply, but...

did you ever meet a girl like any of these two that eventhough she behaved this way was actually interested? I wonder.

i've read some stories about guys complaining that their gf's take forever to reply to any message, like more than a few hours each time, and they're in a relationship! wtf?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheMonkeyKing

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1) They're not that interested.

2) They're gaming you (and it's working).

As I've said before I don't bother too much with electronic comms with women, only to arrange to meet. It works because every other dork is texting/facebooking/calling her all the time.
 

latinnova

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Ya bro, now that I have been back out in the field the girls are running as much game as we are. There are girls out there who are straight up doing the same thing horny PUA dudes are doing, the pump and dump (roles reversed) lol. I got to know this one girl who has built up a harem of sugar daddy's, it's pretty interesting how she is able to handle all this, but she does. Reciprocate her responses, and if that means no response, then move on to another and forget her.
 
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