"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Damn Fella's I'm a Junkie...

Outlaw_

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I figured I would go ahead & admit it now. I'm a junkie. After a year a 4 months of being back in the game...I'm finally back to square 1. I'm addicted to spinning plates.

Now, to me a plate is only a plate after I've hit the pvss. So, I have 2 plates...but I have 7 more potentials (that have been PERSUING ME...for over 2 weeks minimum)...and it's getting a little stressful.

The stress comes into play of me when it's time for the weekend...like now! Sh1t man...I have a business to run & I get 6 requests for "What are you doing this weekend?" It's all starting to pile up. I have 2 more who want me to hit the pvss...and that will put me at 4...which is just becoming unmanagable.

I'm secretly hope something goes wrong so that some will drops. But, I'm secretly addicted to stringing along. I feel like a cartoon character twisting his handle-bar mustache cackling...saying "It's working!"

I just want to fvck them all...yes...the remaining 7...I can't help it. And the 2 that I have...are SO fun to fvck.

And, I can't even consider picking another woman up & adding her to the team...but at the same time, when I'm out shopping...I find myself day gaming ... collecting numbers.

How many of you guys can feel this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No I don't. I have more important things in life than women. I''m stressed out with ONE. About half the time, I don't want her around.
 

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Reading the title of the post, I thought you were a drug addict or something and were having a problem with it all. But fortunately things are not too bad, it could be a hell of a lot more miserable.
 

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:up: Enjoy it, otherwise, why make it a chore? Keep it fun, right?

Sheeeeyit, I can hardly remember the names of a couple gals, but 7 potentials? I'd get into trouble for not caring enough to keep their names straight. :eek:

It's surely fun to slash-and-burn through vaginas on a binge after you are fresh out on the market, but it seems you're coming down off the "rampage", eh? Sounds like you're priorities are catching back up to you: "women shouldn't be the focus of your life" and all that jazz.

Perhaps re-visit Anti-Dump's Machine and tighten up your qualifications?

You might find yourself losing the paper plates and only spinning the finest, stress-free, gold-trimmed china plates on your weekends.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sodbuster said:
No I don't. I have more important things in life than women. I''m stressed out with ONE. About half the time, I don't want her around.
LMAO. Out of curiosity, why do you have a woman that you don't want to be around? Comfortable?

mangotot said:
Reading the title of the post, I thought you were a drug addict or something and were having a problem with it all. But fortunately things are not too bad, it could be a hell of a lot more miserable.
Trust me...I feel like its a drug, but I'm not miserable. It' just a bit odd, how I can't stop.

Vulpine said:
Enjoy it, otherwise, why make it a chore? Keep it fun, right?

Sheeeeyit, I can hardly remember the names of a couple gals, but 7 potentials? I'd get into trouble for not caring enough to keep their names straight.

It's surely fun to slash-and-burn through vaginas on a binge after you are fresh out on the market, but it seems you're coming down off the "rampage", eh? Sounds like you're priorities are catching back up to you: "women shouldn't be the focus of your life" and all that jazz.

Perhaps re-visit Anti-Dump's Machine and tighten up your qualifications?

You might find yourself losing the paper plates and only spinning the finest, stress-free, gold-trimmed china plates on your weekends.
Thanks bro. There is a Dr. Dre line from one of his songs that my situation reminds me of:

I just want to fvck bad b1tches,
For all them nights I never had b1tches,
Now I'm all up in that azz b1tches.

Yeah, my priorities are definitely catching back up to me. I will go back to AD's Machine because it's time to get the most interested ones out of about ... a bunch, I can't remember. It's now time to get the most interest out of this small group... and that will be my gold-trimmed china my friend!
 

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Yeah, so still only fvcking 2. Two potentials dropped & I picked up another...so that's at 2/6 = 8. I've figured out how to balance the weekend. I only have 5 slots though. Two day slots and 3 night slots including Sunday night. You don't get a night slot unless you've given up the pvss.

So, it'll get a little interesting when I'm smashing 4 or 5.

As a side note, it's amazing how women will pursue you, if you provide a certain level of value for their life. Said another way, if you talk to them, they will tell you what they like in a man. Then, if you supply that...but are too busy to fall all over them, then they will pursue...SHAMELESSLY.

Sorry fellas if you consider it vanity...maybe it's a mid-life crisis. Haha.

I'm just documenting this for anyone who is interested in this kind of lifestyle. And, for myself, because I have a habit of jumping out of the game on purpose. I binge game...like now...then I will settle down with what I consider a High Quality woman.

What's crazy is that when I settle down...I have no desire for other women...because I've gotten it all out of my system.
 
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