"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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***Official Late Night with Bradd80 Interview Thread***

HumbleNinja

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Here's your questions:

What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

How many chicks have you slept with?

What was your worst experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?

Most plates you've spun at one time?

How do you handle time having no plates?

Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, meeting/being introduced through family, work or whatever else..

Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (as in not expecting the "result" of getting a chick back.)

Do you ever see yourself getting married?

Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

Favorite So Suave posters?

Can the Chatzy site link be sticked for posters to BS on a more real time without having to waste their ten post limit?

How did you get chosen to become a mod for So Suave?

What goes on in the moderators corner besides chatting about who's next up for a perma-ban? Haha

Your thoughts on the Manosphere?

Thoughts on Rollo Tomassi’s book? Have you read it or plan on it?

Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?

(Add the links to your stickied threads below for whomever hasn't seen or read them Bradd. Thanks.)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Purefilth

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I remember when I first came here, even though it was pretty late in my dating career – it was like a religious epiphany for me, having all of the mistakes I had ever made with women pointed out to me in clear, black letters. It was like I had experienced a rebirth.
Ditto :up:
 

HumbleNinja

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Bradd. Forgot one other important question I've read about a while ago that maybe you might know the answer to for posters in the Toronto area..

Is it true that Toronto is the most difficult place to pick up in your opinion and why? Is it just a myth for PUA's who've failed there? Or is it like that for most guys and why do you think so?

I've never been to Toronto but to Montreal and that place was berserk. Went with twenty jacked complete animals (not jacked at all myself) for a bachelor party there a few years back..And dudes got laid (not myself as I was in an LTR), chicks in the V.I.P pulled from the club below (college chicks) got completely nude after a few drinks dancing on the drink tables (one chick slipped and fell off her fingernail hit my eye before I had a chance to close it to catch her and I had a bloodshot red eye for a few weeks after.) Honestly it got so bad there as we went in a party bus I was semi-embarrassed at times for being American visiting in another country. Dudes got out in the middle of the day on the street and started pissing in front of everybody. Many times I seriously thought we were going to get arrested..So unless Toronto is completely different from Montreal (it was summer time though and not winter) I'm not so sure Toronto is THAT bad. It could just be PUA dudes getting blown out for being lame cornballs.
 

Bokanovsky

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HumbleNinja said:
So unless Toronto is completely different from Montreal (it was summer time though and not winter) I'm not so sure Toronto is THAT bad. It could just be PUA dudes getting blown out for being lame cornballs.
Toronto and Montreal are VERY different places. You really can't compare the two...it's like comparing Idaho to South Florida. It's not as bad as some "PUA dudes" make it sound but a lot of the negative stuff you hear about Toronto women is indeed true.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Solomon

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Bradd where da phuck you been mate?

When you approach a chick what do you usually say and how do you escalate?

My name is Dan i hacked Solo's account


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