MatureDJ
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
spinster laments about the "soulmate" she dumped in her youth
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
yup...
http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view/12753/hamster-wheel-o.gif
her little hamster wheel has finally reached overload.
3.5 billion other men and she's still so beta about it.
This does shake my understanding that women are cold heartless creatures of instinct that monkey-branch over to the new branch before letting go of the old.
http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view/12753/hamster-wheel-o.gif
her little hamster wheel has finally reached overload.
3.5 billion other men and she's still so beta about it.
This does shake my understanding that women are cold heartless creatures of instinct that monkey-branch over to the new branch before letting go of the old.
Who Dares Win
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LOL B1TCH nicely done...spin hamster spin...
I know I sound childish but to hear such things puts me in a good mood as much as a robber which gets hit by car while running away...some kind of justice which finally arrives.
Did you read this? it seems a kid complaining that his enginner dad is not as cool as his friend's fire brigadeer dad.
Good for Matthew. I hope he lives a long and happy life. As for this woman, they are everywhere, fomenting disaster in the lives of good, honest men. I am very glad this fellow, Matthew got through all this. It must have been very painful, as many of us here know.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
MikeOck
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Notice she didn't miss her ex at all until she got dumped by the more exciting new guy. He was cheating on her repeatedly and she knew about it, yet she didn't leave him, she was quite happy with her desirable, exciting new man. It was only after the player left her that she suddenly "realized" how great the first guy was.
"I moved into a rented flat a few miles away in Hornchurch, Essex, and embraced single life with a vengeance..."
The famous (or infamous) c0ck carousel strikes again!!!
Im pretty sure this is a story repeated in many marriages only on this occassion, she had the financial security to leave before the children came along (usually its the kids which provide the income after the split).
she is basically a selfish cvnt
The famous (or infamous) c0ck carousel strikes again!!!
Im pretty sure this is a story repeated in many marriages only on this occassion, she had the financial security to leave before the children came along (usually its the kids which provide the income after the split).
she is basically a selfish cvnt
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I've seen it time and time again... The nature of women is to forever be in love with the first significant bf they ever had. They will always be comparing the new men to him and will never successfully move on. Any man who follows in the footsteps of the significant ex will never live up to her expectations.Danger said:
Men are the only ones who can truly move on and find success with a new woman.
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I tend to agree with this but at the same time lets not forget the "war brides" phenomenon.Desdinova said:
Sincerly I dont know that to think since both of this explanations which oppose to each other makes both perfect sense.
http://therationalmale.com/2011/10/03/war-brides/
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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There is one notable error in Rollo's article:
Women keep a subconscious list of significant men in an identical fashion to a high score screen of a video game. The more emotional points a man scores with her, the higher up he is on the list. Over time, the list may change if she encounters more significant men. Interestingly, sometimes the men who are lower on her list can either decrease their own scores or increase other men's scores.
The more you stand out from the other guys, the more the other guys are going to boost your score. You may eventually become one of the most significant people in her life, even years after you've split up and terminated contact. She can easily write off other guys she dates because there's still men in her mind with higher scores.
The example of her ex is completely contradictory to this statement:
If women have such an easy time writing guys off, then why is this ex still so damn significant? Here's the way I see it...
Women keep a subconscious list of significant men in an identical fashion to a high score screen of a video game. The more emotional points a man scores with her, the higher up he is on the list. Over time, the list may change if she encounters more significant men. Interestingly, sometimes the men who are lower on her list can either decrease their own scores or increase other men's scores.
The more you stand out from the other guys, the more the other guys are going to boost your score. You may eventually become one of the most significant people in her life, even years after you've split up and terminated contact. She can easily write off other guys she dates because there's still men in her mind with higher scores.
taiyuu_otoko
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Amazing that a "successful" women still thinks she can have her cake and eat it, too.
Had she stuck with him, she'd be miserable, because would always be thinking of the mega career woman she "could have been."
Now she's miserable because she wishes she would have stayed with him, but that's only in the context of HAVING HER FINANCIAL SUCCESS.
In any case, she sounds like a typical female nutjob who never really reaches adulthood and realizes that life is filled with choices.
You choose THIS, you can't have THAT.
Pick one, and live with it.
Had she stuck with him, she'd be miserable, because would always be thinking of the mega career woman she "could have been."
Now she's miserable because she wishes she would have stayed with him, but that's only in the context of HAVING HER FINANCIAL SUCCESS.
In any case, she sounds like a typical female nutjob who never really reaches adulthood and realizes that life is filled with choices.
You choose THIS, you can't have THAT.
Pick one, and live with it.
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I hope that stupid kuhnt goes to her death bed hurting for her stupid-selfish decisions.
I've got an ex wife that thought she could do better too. After she figured out the grass wasn't any greener, she jumped on the cahk carousel to try and validate herself. That didn't satisfy her either. 5yrs later reality, has set in and she knows I will never be with her again and that bothers her a great deal. She is approaching 40 now and her looks are fading fast. She went from a solid 8 that used to turn heads to about a 6 now. She is fat, broke, depressed, requires counseling, smokes, drinks, and all tatted up now. There are no more family gatherings that she used to love to attend. There are no more nice vacations for her. There is no more affording whatever you want. There is no more "limelight" for her that she loved being in due to my hobby.
Now she realizes she really screwed up and left the best guy she will ever have. She hasn't met a guy that has even come close to what I had to offer.
I say FUHK THOSE STUPID GREED"Y KUNTS and EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM. THEY DESERVE TO DIE MISERABLE. I HAVE MORE RESPECT FOR PROSTITUTES.
There are a lot of women who act like spoiled little girls until their looks start to run out and the world stops catering to them. I remember hearing how girls were more mature than boys growing up. Nowdays I know that was a load of schitt, just more male shaming from a society who puts women on pedastals.
I've got an ex wife that thought she could do better too. After she figured out the grass wasn't any greener, she jumped on the cahk carousel to try and validate herself. That didn't satisfy her either. 5yrs later reality, has set in and she knows I will never be with her again and that bothers her a great deal. She is approaching 40 now and her looks are fading fast. She went from a solid 8 that used to turn heads to about a 6 now. She is fat, broke, depressed, requires counseling, smokes, drinks, and all tatted up now. There are no more family gatherings that she used to love to attend. There are no more nice vacations for her. There is no more affording whatever you want. There is no more "limelight" for her that she loved being in due to my hobby.
Now she realizes she really screwed up and left the best guy she will ever have. She hasn't met a guy that has even come close to what I had to offer.
I say FUHK THOSE STUPID GREED"Y KUNTS and EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM. THEY DESERVE TO DIE MISERABLE. I HAVE MORE RESPECT FOR PROSTITUTES.
There are a lot of women who act like spoiled little girls until their looks start to run out and the world stops catering to them. I remember hearing how girls were more mature than boys growing up. Nowdays I know that was a load of schitt, just more male shaming from a society who puts women on pedastals.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.