"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Stop Thinking and Delve Into the Depths of SoSuave

Sofomore

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I have decided to write this post for all of us constantly thinking about "what do I do next" or "does she like me?".

I am an aspiring Don Juan. Maybe I am no Pook, or Senor Fingers but I damn well am going to do my best to get there. I hope you feel the same way.

There are a lot of "discussion" posts about small details of your game (I am guilty of it) but its time we change this. No more "what would you do?" threads. It's time to delve deep into the great resource we have all stumbled upon: SoSuave. It's time we grab our balls and forget all the small details about our so-called "love-life".

I demand we read and get EXPERIENCE.

Below is a list of links to threads that I feel everyone should read no matter your experience level. Take your time, study them well. These are long reads but are some of the best threads in SoSuave.

Weapons of Mass Seduction
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=37710&highlight=mass+seduction
Fifteen, yes 15, threads on improving YOU while staying focused on becoming a DJ.

The Gunwitch Method
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=46286
An in-depth description of opening, attracting, isolating and closing. Everyone should read this at least once.

Incredible
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=18392
The power of experience in relation to almost all aspects of game.

Ten Commandments of the Don Juan
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=56631
Ten commandments that every Don Juan should adhere to.

Fifteen Lessons
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=59150
Absolutely phenomenal read. Pook describes fifteen lessons that every man should learn.


Well there you have my suggestions. Check out the forum archive! Check out the tips section! READ and stop THINKING so much, it's not healthy :) .
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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iwanttofight

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Thanks for posting these links, I will read them all, if you got any more links that you think I should read send me the link, thanks Sofomore
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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