"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Phone number success....and some lessons

Keymaster of Goza

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Last night I was out at a beer garden with a couple , some friends of mine.

My buddy's wife pointed out a group of four girls of to my right who were dancing together.

My confidence level wasn't that great but I went over to them anyway and said a few lame things, I can't really remember what.

Anyway of the four, one was a warpig, two were reasonably hot , maybe 8s and one was less hot but still doable, by definition a 7.

I did my best to talk to all of them, but focused on the 7 because she was showing the highest interest level.

The 8s kept asking my name but I kept giving them the brush off with statements like "that's a state secret, sorry but I'm bound by the official Secrets Act" and then just changing the subject.

Pretty soon the 8s were starting to get pissed and were almost begging "C'mon just tell us your NAME!" but I kept playing games with them.

Eventually when I got the 7 alone I said to her "by the way, my name is *****, what's yours?". After another 5 or 10 minutes I told her I had to leave and she gave me her number.

The strategy here that I was aiming for was to seem mysterious, to frustrate the 8s , and then reward the 7 for her high interest level by giving her something that her hotter friends couldn't get thus making her feel special .

I'll call in about 3-5 days.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don the Legend

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Great Job Keymaster!

Keep up the great posts.

Legend

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"As you walk down the fairway of life you must smell the roses, for you only get to play one round."... Ben Hogan

"The key to happiness in your life is "Your Life",... Don the Legend
 

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And yet another success for the success forum?
 

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Thanks again Neo,

Moved to 'Success Stories' Forum
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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