"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thanks guys, but I don't think there's anything more I can learn here

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Hey guys, just writing this thread to say thanks for any help you gave me. I've learned a lot here, although none of that has helped me find success with women. So I figure I'm missing something that this forum can't help me with, maybe it's something I need to figure out or develop on my own (maybe a bigger wallet, lol). I'm putting this whole girl thing on hold anyway, I have more important things to do right now (finishing my education, getting a house). Anyway, this has gotten longer than I originally planned, but thanks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Scion said:
I've learned a lot here, although none of that has helped me find success with women.
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This site can only lay the foundation for what you are to become. It can point you in the right direction, in the end it's up to YOU to ACT and make a big push to change your life, you need to get out and push your comfort zone and push and push and push and you don't even recognise yourself.

It's like building a house. Can't do it without laying the foundation, but then you need to move on, you can lay all the foundation you want and it's not going to give you windows and a roof.
 
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I agree with you about the foundation is only the first step. The stuff preached on this forum seem to be only the basics, the foundation. I've yet to figure out the stuff to take it to the next level, which may just be inexperience (at least I hope so). I've improved a lot with women (I've actually had dates in the last year, which were very rare before that), have learned to take rejection with some sort of self-respect, and my eyes have been opened to the true nature of women. I guess that's something, which I can be happy with.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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