"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This weekend. Take action!

Warrior74

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My weekend was last night. Went out and ran into an old FB, had a few drinks and some fun. I have my kid this weekend so I will be spending all of my time with her. You guys with no kids, make it a point to take action this weekend. Get out there, go somewhere new, have some adventures, hook up with your girl, FB, plate, girlfriend, wife..whatever and do something! Go sarge, hunt, pimp or what ever it is you do. Do something new. Just don't sit home all weekend on the internets or going to the same old places. Get up, get out and get something. Take action! Good luck!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJDanny

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Alright so this weekend(including last couple of days) I quit my job, started looking for investors for my new business, spent today cleaning the house, tonight tomorrow and sunday I am getting out on the ice with some buddys to play hockey. oh and I quit that facebook thing and installed some software to keep me off my usual time wasting sites. I've wasted too much of my life with stupid **** to keep doing that going forward. Unfortunately, it doesn't look like there's gonna be much time for the ladies this weekend, their loss.;)
 

trent81

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I'm going hunting. Gonna go shoot some defenseless creatures. Can't wait.
 

djzulu

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Going out with ex tonight, then tomorrow going with dog to beach and meeting up with friend to check out some bars in the evening.

No plans as of now for Sunday, will probably work on a new art piece.
 

Solomon

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My buddy met some chick(s) last week courtsey of me (I opened them after we walked by and she said "oh my gosh he is hot") we are gonna meet up with them for some drinks, however before we meet up with them, we gonna go out and fish for some new catches

peace

p.s. on sunday watching the game with some buddies, its gonna be fun
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Poonani Maker

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I'm going fishing in two ponds/lakes today that I've never tried. Also, I'm packing my sh!t for a move to a better place, even though I haven't signed a new lease yet. The b!tch won't call me back even after she gave a green light to move 2 weeks ago.

I'll go out tonight, ALONE. I could go with others, but I don't want to go that far to "Drink." Even though a couple of decent sex-giving women will be there, I'd rather just socialize close to home, so I go it alone. Oh well.
 

synergy1

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Another weekend is upon us, and we should all follow previous examples on taking action.

Having moved and getting a business set up has left me with no time to make friends yet. I had a great social network back in Boston, so I am not worried about my ability so much making the effort to make friends. Since we are all set up now, I can focus on that aspect of life. We have plans of a pre party ( think pre gaming) and hitting up downtown with some folks. No idea what the women situation will be like, but I suspect not too great which means i'll have to make the most of it when we hit up downtown and the house parties.

We shall see how out of practice my DJing skills are. I had a girlfriend for the last year, and have not had to chat it up with the hunnies. Part of the action plan is to get back to where I was and snag a few numbers and make new friends.
 

ThunderMaverick

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Tonight: Halloween party!!

TOMORROW: ....I dunno yet!!!

Sunday: Taking some headshots!!

In general: I'm glad I don't have kids!!!
 
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