"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Would you walk away?

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Hey all,

This morning I got off the train and asked a reasonably attractive girl how she was doing. She gave me a look, it wasn't a 'f&*k off' look but more like she didn't want to be bothered. She said good and I asked if she had a big night. Same short response so I just kept walking.

When you're in that position, do you walk away? I have a problem with over-analysing peoples body language, facial expressions etc and quite often get the wrong impression that they're not interested.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tick37

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Ask her whether a bl0wjob is out of the question.
 
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tick37

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Maybe you should get off the train or whatever you are doing and get straight to the point like the following:

Excuse me, I don't have time for small talk because I just got off my train, and I've got to get going. I'd like to take you out. Can I get your number?

If she doesn't like it, don't be apologetic for appreciating her beauty. Don't apologize for being a man. Oh well!

Maybe someone else has something better, but that's what I would do.
 
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Both of tick37's ideas are great, though if you're going to use the first one, make sure that your voice tonality, body language, and eye contact are perfect.
 
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