"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SERIOUS UPDATE

A new girl came over last night and we had a great time. In fact is was so good when we went out for lunch today she mentioned her pu*sy was sore twice and we did it like 8 times. I was drunk so to be honest, I don't remember much. And that REALLY sucks.


Now for the bad part;

Went went out for some lunch. Then came back to my place again.

My ex must have been stalking my place because as soon as we walked in my psyco EX walked in my door up to my new girl and said "THIS IS MY BOYFRIEND"

The new girl then left

I then basically did everything other than call the police to get the psycho out.


Now I get an email from new girl saying

"sorry but this is going to no where. I'm out. I like u but too complicated and I don't thik I want that situation again. Have a nice sunday"



What do you think???

Should I call her, email her back or what?
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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that was my crazy ex, now you can understand why shes my ex, and i'm in the process of getting a restraining order. what you doin tomor?
 
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Patrick124 said:
that was my crazy ex, now you can understand why shes my ex, and i'm in the process of getting a restraining order. what you doin tomor?
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Do you think that my new girl will leave me over this?

I mean she just emailed me "she's out i'm too complicated"...

Is this a **** test or is she for real and I shouldnt pursue her anymore like it's over?
 
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i just read your other post ur ex is beyond psycho
its not over if u fukked her 8 times in one night
contact her ask her if she is willing to work thing's out if you put restraining order on ur ex
 
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Well I can't call her because the psycho ex broke my phone while I was threatening to call the police.

Maybe it's better if I don't call? I'll just send an email.


So I think I'll just give it a few hours enjoy the game and she'll email me back.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dole said:
its not over if u fukked her 8 times in one night
contact her ask her if she is willing to work thing's out if you put restraining order on ur ex
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This is the beast advice so far and I'm going with it.

Plus I work with this girl and soon we'll even be working the same hours.

It'll make work alot more interesting!

OH not to mention this chic is just divorced so it's not like she can talk about too much drama or anything.... who wants a chic fresh off a divorce?

as in 1 month!
 
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Any chance that since I banged her so good last night she doesn't really care about my ex showing up? She said we were up to 8 times and she had to stop because her p#ssy hurt. Those were her words.
Maybe the ex showing up builds more interest for me.

And now maybe she wants me to call and say I'm sorry like I did something wrong.
 
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Reply saying, 'I think you're right, its better if we remain friends'. she'll be like WTF.
 
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MrGold said:
Reply saying, 'I think you're right, its better if we remain friends'. she'll be like WTF.
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I emailed her this.

Thanks, lets see how it works.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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1) learn from your ex's mistakes (which may be beyond any normal human mistakes apparently)
2) stop going back to her when you have no one else, your leading her on. Doesnt matter if you care about her feelings or not, but you are rewarding her behavior, even if it takes time on her part to get what she wants. It can be hard but have self control. If you want her out of your life you would have done this. (and im assuming you havent from your last thread)
3) i liked MrGold's idea :)
 
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Maxtro said:
I haven't had sex in almost a year. What the hell are you complaining about?
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Well when you finally did get sex and your ex girl showed up acting like a psycho at your home ruining your chances with the girl you sexed, I'm sure you wouldn't care right?
 
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Mr. Ballz said:
1) learn from your ex's mistakes (which may be beyond any normal human mistakes apparently)
2) stop going back to her when you have no one else, your leading her on. Doesnt matter if you care about her feelings or not, but you are rewarding her behavior, even if it takes time on her part to get what she wants. It can be hard but have self control. If you want her out of your life you would have done this. (and im assuming you havent from your last thread)
3) i liked MrGold's idea :)
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You are so right. That's exactly why i keep going to to this EX.

But after this never, ever again.

The sad thing is this new girl was really really cool and I loved hanging out with her.
 
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Well new girl just replied "we can still hang out as friends"

Thats good news I guess
 
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UPDATE

MY BASEMENT WINDOW IN MY HOUSE IS SMASHED!

I think my ex did it...

The new girl is still unsure about me. Says we can hang out as friends. Says she is real upset about what happened.

What do you think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lol damn i dunno...deep down all girls like some sort of drama..id just sit back and go into Madden Coach Mode and see how **** plays out haha
 
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lol damn i dunno...deep down all girls like some sort of drama..id just sit back and go into Madden Coach Mode and see how **** plays out haha
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True they do like drama.

This new girl yesterday told me "its over"

Then I replied "fine see you around". I played it like I didn't care! And now she wants to "Hang out as friends"

She probably thought I would beg for her to not leave me or something.
 
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You got that hoe brah. Play it like you wanna just be friends. Just tell her yo ex can't understand "no" and leave it at that. Dont promise ****. Next time she come over, you gon **** her, if you really want her tell her how you feel when yall laying down next to each other.
 
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Bunk 040 said:
You got that hoe brah. Play it like you wanna just be friends. Just tell her yo ex can't understand "no" and leave it at that. Dont promise ****. Next time she come over, you gon **** her, if you really want her tell her how you feel when yall laying down next to each other.
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Thanks for your input. I'm going to invite her over to my house this week.

Today she told me "my ex calls me evry night just to see how I am doing".

She's trying to make me jealous or something. What kind of a loser is her ex if that is true? Or she just made that sh1t up?
 
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She lame, when a hoe tell you **** like that dont try and up her one. Just be like "why you telling me bout that ****?" and sound annoyed.

Aint nothing wrong with him callin her n seeing how she doin, cause she probably call him too n tryna play it like she don like the dude no more. These hoes got game brah, the can make a lame think anything.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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