"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HandyAndy

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Well im 15, and im 270 pounds, im chubby yes...but im not so fat that its hanging everywhere and its all sloppy and ****. Im really well groomed and i keep my look really clean. I have a pretty decent face, i do workout, i have a somewhat big chest and big arms and shoulders, I basicly need to get lean and slim my belly! That the biggest thing i need right now, i hate having a big belly and nasty love handles, lol, honestly i dont care what ppl say about me, it doesnt stop me from meeting gorgeous girls at school, but i need to do this for personal reasons, i want to be healthy and fit, no more love handles ARGG!!:up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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read the "where to start" sticky. and give us a couple days of what your diet looks like.
In the meantime just do some skipping every morning before breakfast
 

cuzza

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How tall are you?

I wouldn't class 270 pounds as 'chubby'...
 

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Do you like fruits & peanuts?

Pound those down around the clock(up until 1-2 hours till bedtime) and watch yourself slim down in no time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wolf116 said:
In the meantime just do some skipping every morning before breakfast
Are you seriously telling a 270 lb man to skip?
 

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HandyAndy said:
and blinkwatt, i heard peanuts were fattening and gives you pimples
Fatty foods don't make you fat,food with ingredients added make you fat.

As for peanuts giving you pimples,could I guess,everyone different. I eat at least 1.5cups of unsalted peanuts a day and my face doesn't break out ever.
 

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blinkwatt said:
Fatty foods don't make you fat,food with ingredients added make you fat.

As for peanuts giving you pimples,could I guess,everyone different. I eat at least 1.5cups of unsalted peanuts a day and my face doesn't break out ever.
However, there are better nut choices. :)

Peanut allergies are far from uncommon - Andy, try almonds, walnuts, brazils etc.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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HandyAndy said:
haha im 6 foot 2 cuzza
and blinkwatt, i heard peanuts were fattening and gives you pimples
You'd still have to be built like a brick ****house for me to still accept it as chubby lol. But still, you've come to the right place.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
However, there are better nut choices. :)

Peanut allergies are far from uncommon - Andy, try almonds, walnuts, brazils etc.
Yeah true.

For me the only nuts I like are unsalted peanuts. I don't really care for almonds,walnuts and such,I know others will swear by them as I do peanuts.

To each their own.
 

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mrRuckus said:
Are you seriously telling a 270 lb man to skip?
I started skipping every day when i started boxing conditioning and found it to be the best form of cardio ever. Very easy on the joints, builds your calfs for jumping and sprinting. My fat just fell off.
 
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