"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Quick question here, will probably sort its self out soon just wondering what's up...

So today at school, some girl I had one-itis for a little while ago (it went away but still), starts chatting to me in class, trying to hold conversation, leaning in, staring me in the eye, acting really nice on purpose... Yer all was going fine... But I was trying to bust on here a bit about something, and I notice how close she gets to all of her girl friends... So I sort of pick up on that "Woah how close do you wanna get," ya know nothing big just light-hearted... And I'm not too sure how she took it... It was like, half as though she knew I was joking and half as though she took offense from it. She was like "What? Oh my god I don't like him any more." I was like, woah is she serious, and then she put on some voice like "disgusting," in a joky voice though. God knows what she thought of that, lol maybe in future I should find other things to bust on her about, or what?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't worry about it too much...I mean, I guess I would avoid something that pisses her off, but it doesn't sound like she was terribly upset...else she wouldn't have sounded joky (not sure that's a word, but it's the closest to an adverb form of joking I can get).

But, and I can't stress this enough, don't stress out about it.
 
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Okay cool mate, thanks Ed, it's just the concept of "I don't like him anymore." That made my ears p**** up.
 
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Which was undoubtedly the effect she was going for...
It's just a shyt test, my man.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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