"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Newbies apparently need a big sign pointing to The Bible so I made one

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Sick of newbies asking the same old questions that have been answered in the bible? Tired of typing 'RTFB'? Me too.

So I knocked this up in Flash. The site is welcome to it if they want to cut down on the amount of samey old threads.

http://www.danavenell.com/DJBIBle.htm

If not, no problem just playing around.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BUMP! And Great Work Man!

It's simple, and elegant. I could easily see this on the forum.


BTW: Have you e-mailed Allen, the site administrator? I'm sure he'd like it.
 
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Looks great in Wyndows and Internet Exposer but don't forget about the rest of the world that uses Linux and Mozilla. It does not work there.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Docs:

I won't get into a Wyndows vs. Linux fight, but, uh, FF for Linux is not the same as FF for Wyndows.

Point is: Nighthawk did a great job, I salute him, but: Don't forget about some dude in San Salvadore that could not get the bootleg version of XP and is in the same boat as the rest of us: His **** is in a bind about some *****.

I know these dudes, dude. Get it? I'm there......Now....
 
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grinder said:
Looks great in Wyndows and Internet Exposer but don't forget about the rest of the world that uses Linux and Mozilla. It does not work there.
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I'm using Ubuntu Dapper (its a very popular Linux distribution) and it looks fine.

You just have to install the mozilla-flash plugin package or whatever its called in your systems repositories. It works after that.

Works in Opera, Konqueror, Firefox, Mozilla Suite.. everything.
 
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Well Sh*t, Call_Me_Daddy: I'm not a total ******* (pretty close) so I do appreciate it. We are using fedora 5 and having probs. Ugg, hate command line sh*t. Don't like to be root all the time.

Ok, before this is moved to the nerd section I will say that, yes, many newbies totally rot our brains with the same questions over and over and if they just read half of the bible they could sarge and actually contribute rather than ask for "easy" solutions that they will never take.
 
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Thanks for the positive response everyone.

Call_Me_Daddy, if people like it I'll send it to Allen. Anyone know the best email for him?

Grinder, I agree this site should be accessible to all, and if anyone else has any difficulty viewing Flash I'd like to hear.

Anyone else here use Flash or Dreamweaver? PM me and we can swap tips and stuff. Like in Dreamweaver, how do I get the above link to pop up as a neat little mini-page?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nighthawk said:
Anyone know the best email for him?

Grinder, I agree this site should be accessible to all, and if anyone else has any difficulty viewing Flash I'd like to hear.
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The Mods know what his e-mail is. Just ask.


And there should not be any problems viewing flash. Everyone has flash.
 
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