"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MountainSlide

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So I was working on this assignment in university with this HB7. I'm not trying to bang her, I am trying to make friends with her because she is friends with sooo many HBs. Anyway, we had a right answer for the assignment but I thought it was wrong and convinced her that it was wrong but it was actually right, so we both got it wrong and I feel like a dunce for convincing her to put the wrong answer down. any ideas on how to recover from that? It wasn't worth very much.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Talk to her and commiserate over it. Don't take personal responsibility for it but make it out to be a mistake on both of your parts (or ideally her mistske) and see where its at.
 

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Always know that with women, it's not a problem until you vocalize it. So just keep mum about it.
 

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If you ever get anywhere with this girl.. she will use this to **** test you and she prolly already told all her friends about it.

Tuff one.
 

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****y and funny is called for here, along with lots of confidence. "Haha yea fvcked that one up, good thing I am so awesome". That kind of thing.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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El Payaso said:
Always know that with women, it's not a problem until you vocalize it. So just keep mum about it.
this

never mention it again
 

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El Payaso said:
Always know that with women, it's not a problem until you vocalize it. So just keep mum about it.
Double This. ****y and funny. Tell her Double or nothing on the next one. Laugh it off and proceed. This little bs will not affect anything unless you let it.
 

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Yeah I mean it is kind of funny because I was soooo ****y and whenever my ****iness meets academics I phuck things up. I was basically making fun of other people for being stupid and then it turns out they were right and I am the one that is stupid.. It looks bad. But on the other hand, they didn't know **** and everyone was just copying answers from who knows where and hoping they were right. Not one person could explain how they got their answer because they were all just cheating including this batch. So I don't know why I should feel bad, I don't think I will be sharing my answers and opinions with others in the future on this sh*t though because it is way more headache than it is worth. Also I am going to ask her to come hang out and study with me again and see if she is down.
 
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