“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hey. i'm sick.

xectxny19x

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ok guys. so this girl messages me on Wednesday about being sick, but she didn't cancel on me when she did. I suspected she would flake. :nervous: Lo & behold, the girl did show up and before me! I was about 10-20 mins. late.

She was coughing & sniffling the whole time we were together for 2 hours or so. Damn. The girl was really sick.

Goes to show a girl will go out with you even if she is sick.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Damian

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Well, it's a big step in building connection when she feels that comfortable around you. She was sick and could have easily canceled with good reason, but didn't. Take it as a big compliment and don't let it change your perspective of her. This girl went the extra ten yards to be with you that day.
 

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Seems like she has good character

Damian haven't seen you on this board for awhile.
 

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xectxny19x said:
ok guys. so this girl messages me on Wednesday about being sick, but she didn't cancel on me when she did. I suspected she would flake. :nervous: Lo & behold, the girl did show up and before me! I was about 10-20 mins. late.

She was coughing & sniffling the whole time we were together for 2 hours or so. Damn. The girl was really sick.

Goes to show a girl will go out with you even if she is sick. But I don't know, I might have preferred she stayed home with all the coughing & her face looked so flushed. I'm glad she came out though.
Damn right ... if a woman really likes you she will not let anything stop her from seeing you and getting to know you..

first sign of LOW IL is excusses as to why she cant se you...
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whether it's b/c she wants to get to know me or not, definitely thumbs up to her for keeping the date though despite being that sick. not only that, she was on time. :cheer:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah a few months back I took a girl to see Fuel, the rock band. She told me a few weeks later that she had one of the worst migraines of her life that night, but still wanted to hang out with me. At a loud concert!!
 
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