"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Problem With DJ Discussion Forum (Long

Rex Man

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First off, for those that don't know me and want to know where I'm coming from(If you don't give 2 sh!ts feel free to skip to the next paragraph), I was in high school when I found this site. I had at the been LJBF'd by a few girls and was pretty lost. With some free time in the Library and a drive to suceed, I stumbled upon this site. It was absolutely brimming with useful, and more importantly, encouraging stuff. I didn't even know about the Forum but I printed out the stuff I thought would be beneficial to me and got to work. Rejection after rejection I continued to grow into something else. With my brother and cousin backing me, I evolved my game from stumbling virgin, to offensive numbers. With my inner locus of control pushing me, I became Rex Man. Then I found this forum......


First off, this forum is like the internet itself. It has the potential to educate, to encourage, to be this interactive exchange of usefull information. HOWEVER, like the net, it is mainly filled with garbage? Why is that? How could some of the same people that have access to same tools as I spit out such stupidity?? Why do people listen?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rex Man

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To answer this question I put myself into the shoes of a person that just jumped on the Forum. Without a compass as to who's who, what could help me to determine who knows their stuff? Posts. That is the only thing I can see to judge these posters own. It would only make sense that I give more credibility to the 'senior' right?? Wrong. Many posts don't mean anything but the person has written many posts. So a troll or an idiot that posts alot will be listened to, whereas someone who has the game down that has just joined may be shunned. THAT is the problem with this forum. If people care about this forum they will do 2 things

1) Learn the game and get it down before giving a lot of advice

2) Read the threads not the posts.

Flame me if you want, but at least recognize the truth.




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I agree what you have to say 100%. I feel that we need more guys that give us on the field situations. We have too many people in here trying to flame everyones threads. They make jokes and come up with stupid oneliners.. This site has a load of bs on it. I agree
 

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Lookyoung, That's very true. More Field Reports would definitely be welcomed. The best thing to do I've found is to ignore BS. Responses only encourage it.
 
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